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I been with my boyfriend for 9 months now & We are very inseparable or at least it seems that way. From the beginning of our relationship he was obsessed with everything about me.. almost right away. Through out the first three months, things really started to get tough.. We argued a lot. he was over-protective & always demanding loyalty. Soon after I figured out he cheated on me & it was devastating ! More on the fact that, he talked about my loyalty to him almost everyday. He begged me to stay with him & asked for my forgiveness & to try to work it out & promised it would never happen again.. We moved on... but everything was still really complicated after.. arguing a lot still but , it seemed like there was bits of positive changes here & there that lead me to believe he would never cheat on me again... Soon to realize Three months later.. here I am. & He Cheated on me AGAIN... I can't leave. but I can't take him back as my bf. Not only did he cheat on me.. but he made the girl he was cheating on me his girlfriend too.. She said she never knew & He lied saying we weren't together... I am in complete turmoil... my heart is dead shattered.. I broke up with him & so did she. But she is still trying to work it out with him.. Unfourtunatley for her, he doesn't want anything to work out for them anymore & wants to juss continue on with me. He's spent the past two days trying to get us back... but it seems like his presence makes me happy & sad at the same time.. Where did I go wrong? what did I do to deserve this? 9 months may not seem that long, but Its like we can't part.. which makes me so much more confused as to why he cheated on me again ! The first time. He told me why & how he felt like I was neglecting him & not caring as much as he wanted me too.. we got past it & I show i care a lot ! But, now what? I asked him this time & he said. nothing your perfect. i took him back as my bf after a day last time. this time i refuse to. but i don't wanna loose him! help!

My boyfriend has been consistently obsessing over this one girl. A female friend who he'd been seeing for ages without ever telling me of her. We've been dating 3 years and I think it's odd for a guy to simply meet with a girl you don't know behind your girlfriends back. I just recently found out he'd been searching for her every single day on Facebook and I was really hurt and upset. Why would you search for someone if they're not in your thoughts?
It's not the first time I've felt uncomfortable with how he is over her so I suggested a break from each other. He says he only wants me and no one else but this is his first relationship. Everything else is perfect and I adore him but I feel like I can't trust him. He's always secretive about her and always gets a guilty look and denies everything even when I know he's lying.
But now I'm feeling guilty over arguing with him and suggesting a break. It's our anniversary tomorrow and all I want to do is see him but I don't think it'd be a good idea.
Do you think I'm over reacting or fully justified in what I've done?

My boyfriend and I started dating in high school and are going into out second year of college now. There's this girl at his school who is so pretty and extremely nice, basically perfect. His school is pretty small so everyone knows everyone and all the guys obsess over her because she doesn't hook up with anyone and is "hard to get". Well she and my boyfriend have been snapchatting a lot and it's back and forth for hours sometimes. He claims they're just friends and I trust that he won't cheat on me but I'm scared she's taking it a different way and actually has feelings for him. He mostly just sends funny faces but she gets like personal about her like and He tries to hide it sometimes from me but anytime I look over as he's texting or taking a picture, it's to her. I just don't like this feeling. I'm kinda jealous that she's getting so much attention from him, I feel like when you're in a relationship you should give another girl more attention than your own girlfriend. it's not like that all the time but sometimes it is and I don't like it. I'm not sure what to do about this, I'm scared for when August rolls around and he goes back to school. what if she tries to make a move? I'm scared to talk to him about it because I do trust him and he can have friends that are girls.. I just don't like how close they are.. it seems a little to intimate of a friendship for a guy with a girlfriend. Guys, is this normal? Should I be nervous? what should I do?

I've been dating this guy,(dating as in hanging out, he's taken me out to eat, etc.) for almost a month now, and his family refers to me as his girlfriend but he doesn't introduce me as such. I really want to be able to say he is my boyfriend, because im starting to fall for him, and he's a really attractive guy.( 6'2", muscled, broad shoulders, captain of his football team, perfect facial hair) I know a lot of girls who would give anything to be in my place, having him spend the night with me and take me to the beach and come see me whenever he can.. I just don't know how to ask. we talked about how we both have major trust issues and that we don't want to rush anything, and I don't. We have been seeing each other almost everyday, and I want him to give me a chance to prove I am not going to hurt him, making him happy is all I want to do. Please vote, im so lost as to what I should do! :/