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I was talking to my friends, one of them who has Tinder. She was explaining to us that she doesn't want to sleep with any of the guys she meets on there, so essentially what she does is she tells them that she wants to, and makes them keen on meeting/doing things with her, but then she never follows through with actually planning to meet. She ghosts them, or just slowly fades out.

For the ones she does meet, she makes them think she'll sleep with them the second time they meet, not the first. The first time is strictly just for making out. And then she never meets them a second time. They just stop talking. My other friend was saying she's a player, but I was saying it's just leading them on. What do you guys think?

The guy I'm talking to at the moment admitted he liked me a while ago, but wasn't super straightforward about it. He wanted to know why I was asking, and then when I told him, he said 'ye I might' but it was obviously very clear he was interested, hence why I asked. We went through a stage where he was unsure of how he felt cause he had been so busy, and now I think he's figured it out, but I asked and all he said 'idk maybe'. He's not the best at talking about his feelings, haha.

The thing is though, the way he talks to me and some of the things he says make it very evident that he's keen, but he won't tell me straight up. To make it a little more complicated, we're doing long distance so it's harder to see each other and talk about this in person. However, he said he isn't a player, and also recently told me he isn't ready for a relationship due to his last one. He also isn't talking to any other girls besides his friends.

This guy I'm acquaintances with has admittedly acted like a total player. He's gotten a lot of girls. He's actually made fun of guys he called "soft" who gave up the game before. The last few mos, he's tried his act on a few blondes that he described as really hot, cute face, etc. He can't beat them at the game. He says he's tried, but a lot of them have such a cute face he can't last 3 seconds trying to be smooth before his jaw drops down. I don't know that angry is the way I'd describe him, but definitely humiliated. He's frustrated, says blondes are too tough, he can't ignore their looks like he can others and he knows he's tried his best. Which of these would you advise him?