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My husband can be really childish and immature; he is easily distracted, and can be lazy at times. He's also very well known for NEVER thinking before he acts!

There's a lot he doesn't know that you would think everyone his age should know. (23)

He's so irritating/aggravating/frustrating that I spend almost all of our time together being pissed off and disappointed with him.

When it comes to chores, I am always left with two options: let him do the chores he is responsible for and get sick from improperly cooked food or half clean dishes, or risk him breaking things and then we have to spend money we can't afford to replace it; or just shove him aside and do it myself, which means I get stuck doing all the chores all the time.

He's NOT wise with our money and the account is always over drawn. He intentionally over-drafted last week to fill the gas tank because it MIGHT cost $50 to fill the tank this week. We got paid two days later, and with the fees, that $23 became $75!

Now, on the reverse; he's a really sweet guy! He's not an ass, or inconsiderate intentionally. He's made almost all of my dreams come true: financial and emotional support for my dream career, my dream car, and the cat I've always wanted.

He's really good to me, but with all the screw ups and drama, I'm too stressed to feel attracted to him anymore! I'm starting to resent him, and I really don't want to be around him at all. He's clingy and needy. This is his first time being away from mommy and daddy and he hasn't got a clue how the world works.

I don't know what to do. I'm NOT happy and he hasn't been improving; he's getting worse!

We don't have any kids, but all of my friends say I act, live, and sound like a single mother. I don't want to leave him, because I don't think he does this on purpose; I think he's really trying, but he makes NO progress.

I'm going to try taking a long break. Go back home for a month or two and give him time to be on his own and see how the world works. I need to get away so I can de-stress and think clearly.

If things don't change I'm going to have to leave him :( I plan to come back unannounced so that I can see the house before he has a chance to clean so that I will know if he's has changed at all.