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I completely cheated, I have had an emotional connection with a man over a year. Let’s call him bob. I tell my boyfriend that bob likes me and that bob wants me to leave him and be with him. My boyfriend could pretty much care less, he thinks bob is not an attractive person and that what we have is too strong.

But me and my boyfriend haven’t been great I tell my boyfriend I’m not happy I need more emotion from him and take me on a date etc. we never go out he loves to lay around at home and he is like a wall he stares at his phone and barely talks to me.

Bob on the other hand is flirty and sweet and he has plenty of emotions. I never gave bob a chance bc I had a boyfriend. So we would harmlessly flirt but not much else.

Me and my boyfriend have a fight and we take a break. Four days later I’m with bob he knows I’m on a break. One thing leads to another and I want to give everything to bob. I litteraly take my clothes off and go for it. I have wanted to always know what me and bob have.

What we had was pretty amazing it was natural like he had been my boyfriend for the past year.

So now what !!! I have a boyfriend who loves me but don’t fulfill my needs even after I beg and plead but I love him. Then bob a man I know so much about but don’t know what I have with him. He also is seeing 2 other girls.

Does bob think this is just a hook up or does he want more? In the past I would say he wants me but it’s been a long year. If I get back with my boyfriend will he even accept me if I tell him?

What the hell do I do?

Me and this guy are officially together few days back after 1 month dating
Yesterday night he called me and this was our conversation:
Him - hey babe can i ask you a question?
Me - yeah
Him - is this something you want? Us?
Me - yeah.. I do like you. Why?
Him - I don't know coz it seems like you're not that keen like I am
Me - nah its not like that, its just that I dont wanna rush anything, just take it slow
Him - oh okay yeah I understand
Me - yeah
Him - look, im gonna be really honest, I really like you a lot yeah, you're the nicest and sweetest girl I've ever met, you're cute, you're smart, you know what you want, you're just a lovely girl. So I do want to be with you and I want this to go somewhere
Me - aw okay thats sweet
Him - yeah i mean it though. I take you out every few days because i like you and you're a nice girl. All I want in a relationship is loyalty and honesty. I want a girl thats loyal and upfront. And you seem like that type which I like
Me - yeah I am loyal and upfront. Were you loyal in your past relationships?
Him - yes I was. I have been cheated on before. I can't cheat. Its not me. Im not a scumbag. I know we haven't been dating for long and I know you got trust issues from your past, but just give me a chance. Please dont doubt me.

Does it seem like he's serious about this?
About me? Us?
Or he can just be faking it?