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So there's a guy I like, but its complicated because he is a family friend. He is older than me by 5 years and i have liked him for almost three years now! I liked him but I've always been shy to talk to him, and he lives in a different country that I visit a lot and he visits where I live a lot, too. and he acts very different with me than others. He is strange in front of me and he seems to act awkward where as with others he is quite open.
He is social- very and he talks to me and looks me right in the eyes, he will come and sit next to me at public functions rather than with his brothers or family, and he always has his body facing to me when we are talking.
Recently, I was staying at his house, and the guest room they had given us was attached to a private lounge. I was sat there and we talked for hours, and I was the one who left first to sleep at half 3 in the morning! Also, after an engagement party we both attended, we were the first ones home, and he came and talked to me and was open for a short while, but as soon as other family members came into the room, he bolted it to the door! Also his mom came in when we were talking and he slipped away, again when my dad came in!
I went home, but soon he started messaging to me and having small conversations with me, and even tried to Skype me a few times. He visited in Jan, and it was so awkward again, he continued to Facebook message me, and asked for my number on iMessage, where we talked a few times, until I paniked and when he asked why I asked his brother if he likes me a while ago (His brother is like a big brother to me), I said it was because i was confused and he seemed distant but i realise now its his personality and he was just rchilling out, and then soon he stopped talking to me. I dont want to message and seem desperate. What do I do?

I met this guy a few months ago and I dont see him often. Every time its the same thing, I let him know I'm around and he instigates us "getting together". We only talk when I instigate a conversation and we have never said we are just FWBs. I've assumed its just that so I have guarded myself, I don't act clingy or needy cause honestly I'm not desperate which I thought FWBs loved (this is my 1st). This past time I was in town things completely changed. I let him know as usual and the next day he texts me and asks me over. He had been drinking so on my way he calls me twice just to make sure I was really coming. I get there and we start talking about our weekends and I end up telling him I went skinny dipping in this lake and all sorts of craziness... He immediately looks at me and asks, "you've been F'ing other guys all weekend haven't you?" I deny it and ask him the same which he denies. He then gets angry and says dont act innocent and tells me the last few times he had seen me out that I'm with a different guy every time. I say uh what exactly am I guilty of? He couldn't answer. Later sexually I ask him what he liked and he says, I like you, which has never been said. I also asked if he thought about me and he started talking about my smell. I brought up what he said about me sleeping around again the following day through text and he completely brushed it off like it wasn't a big deal. The same sorta thing happened around 2 months ago he ran into me at a bar and I was with another guy... he mean mugged me the entire time I was there. I thought nothing of it because the next day I asked him to talk about why he was mad, he brushed it off. I don't want to be the girl who asks the "what are we" question cause I'm not desperate but if he does like me I would like to know. People I talk to say he is just getting territorial and not to think that he likes me since he was drunk. Any advice?
Sincerely,
Confused