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I met a guy on a dating site, he's 8 years older than me, which isn't a problem for me. He's been married once and has 2 kids. He's incredibly handsome, and has been very respectful to me. We've swapped photos, we text and have talked on the phone once. We have been chatting for about 2-3 weeks now and we've both mentioned how we'd love to meet. He has such a fantastic sense of humor, i love people who makes me laugh, not to mention we have the same sense of humor, like creepy jokes too soon.. lol. Though the only cons I can think of is he's one) an inch shorter than me 2) he lives in a different state. Now we're only about 4-4.5 hours away from each other... but that's still a good hop and skip. Granted my ex was 1.5hrs from me, at one point 2.5 and we made in 2 years. But I'm nervous about traveling that far to meet someone, I do own a gun and pepper spray lol but I don't think I'd need to use either.. I say id travel bc I've always wanted to go to a certain area of the state he lives in, I live in the middle of nowhere with nothing close by lol. Also, about his humor.. we had just swapped phone numbers close to Thanksgiving and I texted him, i got a reply, then a message from another number asking why I was texted her husband.. and they had 5 kids together... then I got a pic of a woman, a man and him.. saying they were his extended family and had to break me in right.. which I found hilarious after the finding our it was a joke. He said he had no idea until after the message was sent, they said his jaw dropped.. but anyways, he told them about me.. and a buddy at work as well he told me today he showed him a pic I had sent him this morning. Any advise on meeting, and experiences with this? Did it work for you?

There's this guy I've been talking to for a while now. He's sweet and I really enjoy talking to him. When I first meet him, I sort of avoided him. I didn't find him physically attractive at first. But when I spent an hour on the bus and train with, I got to know him better. He's a about a year older than me. I realized that I felt comfortable talking to him, I felt like myself. I didn't feel like I have kt fake anything. Usually when I have a crush on someone, I have a hard time talking to them, but not with him. I love how when he's talking with me, he listens to me and pays 100% of his attention to me. I feel special every time I talk to him.

The only problem is that I realized he talks to a lot of girs in his grade. I don't know what they talk about, but what if he's like that with every other girl. My friend was telling me today that she talked to him before, she told me everything they talked about. I noticed that he talked about more serious topics with me and about his personal life.

Ugghhh. I can't tell if he likes me as a friend or maybe more. What if he talks to everyone like this?

I really want to message him on fb, but I don't know if I should. I don't know how to start a conversation with him. The first time I meet him, he was the one that started the conversation.

I never had a boyfriend or kissed anybody. I'm new to the whole dating thing. Can you give me advice please?