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Okay, I don't know how to feel about this at all. I made 2 fake snapchat accounts and messaged eachother on it so the account I was going to use had at least some points on it so it wouldn't look suspicious. And i decided to add my Boyfriend on it and start talking to see how he would be with another girl. And I said i was 16 and then he said 'how does it feel to be legal' with a winky face and some kisses (bareing in mind i did send him kisses on this 'lisa' account) and also i asked if he was single and he said YES! with kisses. and i said i was single too. later i then said I had a boyfriend and whether this was bad or not and he said it was but it's my choice if i wanted to send this 'nude' i was promising. I then asked again if he was in a relationship and he said 'yes, but it's more of a failed one which i hate' OMG! this is probaly because we don't talk at all at school because of previous things that have happened people say stuff about us. anyways, he says he loves me and everything and seems very geniun! so I decided to ask whether he loves this girl or not (me) and HE SAYS 'I dont think so ;) ;3 xxx <3' WHAT SHOULD I DO? i really have kept my calm over this, i dont know whether i should come out to him now and send a selfie of my f*cking face and be like 'fuck you cheating cunt' and just break everything or to see more of him and how he acts by using this lisa account. I've told him I've had to go and he called me 'Bae' ... THIS IS AN ON AND OFF RELATIONSHIP by the way. What should i do? any good plans? i

i snooped on my boyfriend and saw a message from a few days before from a women he has had strictly sexual relations with. She said "hi its ____ from Cougar Life. I had a dream about you..." I Didn't read the rest of the message and the previous messages were from before we started dating. Today, i looked again, the conversation was completely deleted. There were conversations with other girls he was dirty talking in but they hadn't been deleted so I don't know what specially he is hiding or he just doesn't care. He also looked through this women's photos, i guess reminiscing or something. As a male why would you do this? He has been contacted before via email from another older women, she asked to meet up, he declined saying he had a girlfriend.

he gave me herpes, as well as the women that had contacted him via Facebook a few days ago, so I'm thinking either he just ignored her and deleted or ensued some interaction since having intercourse with her is plausible since she also has herpes.

I'm in a relationship with this guy, he's not my official boyfriend, but he would like to be. We don't want to put a label on it until we aren't long distance any more, which may or may not happen in the future. I realize that LDRs are hard, and though I do love him, I distance myself a bit and try to rationalize things so that if something happens I won't be too heartbroken. I don't allow myself to have control over him (I don't tell him: don't drink, don't smoke, don't text her, etc) because I realize that he has his own life to live and does love me.

So anyways, there's this girl that he and his roommates have been friends with for about 3 months. She used to like his roommate. I've talked to her on the phone before & she seems nice enough, but based on her previous drama with his roommate, she seems like a slut, dramatic, in need of attention, and very comfortable in their apartment. My guy doesn't like her romantically, I'm not sure if that works both ways.

So, this guy tells me that he & this girl got a cat together. It will work out like this: She pays $300 for his apartment fee of having pets because she can't keep it at the college dorms and will probably get to visit it and stuff whenever she wants. It will be "his" cat though because he is caring for it, feeding it, naming it, and keeping it at his place.

To me, this seems plain weird. You don't just get a pet with someone you've barely know, right? I can understand a best friend, a roommate, but a recent friend? Sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. I also don't see what she really has to gain from this situation, she basically just bought him a cat she can play with whenever she wants. He's letting her because he really wanted a cat. I trust him, not sure about her.

I don't really need advice on what to do, it's his life and things will happen as they do. Please tell me how you feel about this situation!

Thank you :)