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Here is the conversation—

Me: You wanna hear something embarrassing?

Him: Yes.

Me: I was changing in my friend Kylie’s closet and Grayson walked in. 😐

Him (jokingly): Oof now you gotta show him more

Me: lol no. 😂 Then Kylie wanted me to walk in on him changing since he did it to me

Him: Ummm in a joking way?

Me: Yeah it was joking. They kept pressuring me to do it, but I was like nah I can’t

Him (jokingly): Peer pressure is hot

Me: Oh yeah for sure

Him: Like, what did he see? Was it really that bad?

Me: I freaked out honestly, and then I laughed. I tried to hide so he couldn’t see me after he opened the door. He didn’t see much

Him: Oof

Me: It was a mistake tho. It’s all good

Him: What was he looking for?

Me: In the closet?

Him: Like, what was he trying to do?

Me: He was going in there to change, but I was changing

Him: Oof

The conversation changed course afterward. It wasn’t like Grayson did it on purpose, and I just wanted to share something funny. I think my boyfriend took it seriously and didn’t find it as funny. He seemed more focused on what he saw, and what he was trying to do rather than the hilarity of it.

Do you think what happened bothered him? I didn’t mean to potentially make him a little jealous/upset/concerned. I just thought it was funny...

So, I had friends but in middle school and high school I was always the broke friend. I would rarely ask my friends for money or help paying with anything since I always felt kinda guilty doing that because my parents were always helping other people and they are the Rock of the family. I feel like I inherited the trait of being a very generous person and even offered a 32 year old guy 30 dollars because he was homeless. :p

Since I always saw my parents helping other people a lot and putting other people before themselves I always felt guilty asking others for money if I wasn't working for them.

I was always the one either offering money to them or giving them money. I'd date a guy who was broke and made less than me but unless I'm extremely rich he's going to have to make a liveable wage on his own. ( about 16 dollars an hour at least) I had a friend who was talking about marriage but he wasn't willing to give me money for anything even called me a bitch when I asked him for 200 dollars to replace something I lost. If I had the money I'd give it to him in a heart beat. I found it weird how he was so excited thinking of marrying me but wasn't even willing to help me out whenever I needed money. He was 21, worked as a dishwasher and lived with his father and he was telling me about his paychecks and wasn't even willing to freaking help me out with anything I freaking needed but I was willing to be with him. Hell, if he was my boyfriend I'd even allow him to go out with other girls without me being. there Do you think I'm too generous of a person?

So me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years
I have been on the pill ever since we started having sex last year and never missed any pill
I even take the sugar pills
So anyway, my period for this month hasn't started yet and im already on my 4th sugar pill
I usually start my period on the 4th sugar pill
So im freakin out
But my boyfriend always ask me everyday these past few days "have u started ur period yet?"

So anyway this was our conversation today:
boyfriend - are u on your periods yet?
Me - no it didn't start today. I better get it tomorrow or ill freak out
boyfriend - do u have symptoms like vomitting?
Me - nope
boyfriend - do u have acne breakouts? Usually u have em when ur about to have ur period right?
Me - yea i do but only few pimples right now
boyfriend - oh ok
Me - ok let me ask u a question.. what if i am pregnant? Did u want me to abort?
boyfriend - its up to you babe. Its your choice. Like im not a boy, i won't leave you. But you gotta think of the future. Like your future and mine. We are not financially stable yet. We have to be more settled. We gotta think about that. And plus you said your parents are not goin to be happy if u got pregnant. But its your choice at the end of the day. If we do get married in the future, we gonna have kids anyway... but just think about how we both have to focus and build our career first right now
Me - yea i know..
boyfriend - im ready for anything though.
Me - if i do get an abortion, are u gonna come with me or go to work?
boyfriend - ofcourse im going to go with you. What do u think I am? Im gonna be there for u
Me - ok
boyfriend - anyways lets not say anything more. I think u should be good. U didn't miss any pills right?
Me - nah i didn't
boyfriend - then i think u should be fine

Im 23 and he's 28

He says its "up to me" but deep down, he wants me to abort if i do end up getting pregnant.. right?
Should i be upset if he does?

But he's right.. i still need to build my career and dont want a baby right now but im kind of against abortion too
Im freaking the hell out