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My guy friend has been dating this girl for nearly two months.

Upon introducing himself, the father asked him several questions and later on revealed to be many things (a martial artist, good shooter, former HS basketball player and runner too). My friend saw a couple pictures.

The father taught her many of his skills but he's the master. My friend told me he's 6'5 and very active for his age (the guy's 41.. he fathered her at age 19).

Just to sum it up... I was romantically involved (not dating) this guy about a year ago. We went on maybe 2 dates but I don't even think he considered them dates. We hooked up a lot and had a ton of fun. I started acting weird (developed feelings) because I was new to relationships at the time and freaked him out so he stopped talking to me. I deleted him off everything and tried to forget. Its been a while and he randomly added me out of the blue. I'm in a relationship right now and he still isn't so I just thought it was weird... wasn't sure whether to accept because of our past and because I'm taken now but do you think the friend request was innocent? He doesn't seem like a player and is very laid back and friends with girls so I'm not sure..

Men today have these weird notions about us and believe we are some sort of perverse masochistic creatures. Beliefs like " the more you ignore them the more they stick" or "if you show weakness they are turned off" "only a savage alpha male attracts them" etc. A popular one among these lines is "the more of a player you were and are, the more women keep flocking at you". Like there is some "pussy essense" if you want, a feromone that only experienced men have which "makes us weak at the knees"... . Do you really believe that expresses you personally? Or other women that you know? I'm not implying there are no women with weird kicks, or with certain traumas that gives them a reverse sense of good and bad but are we like that as a gender? I beg to disagree with that notion.