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I have had this happen at work in the past. I had to tolerate abusive bosses and coworkers because I needed the money. I also was in a special rent situation with a female landlord who occasionally said some really shitty/bullying remarks that I wouldn’t normally tolerate.

In retrospect I wish I was tougher in these scenarios. Just flipped bird at these people, call out their bullshit and quit. Been then again I would of been in a very hard spot financially. I might of figured it out with other options but things might of actually gotten even worse.

However one big I’m noticing in western society right now is cancel culture. Corporate workplaces are promoting (and often forcing) partisan viewpoints that employees are afraid to disagree with. If you speak up it could cost you your job.

Its one thing if you are a millionaire celebrity who has money to fall back on in these situations. But its a completely different story if your the average joe who is struggling to get by (especially if you have a family to support)

before I start I would like to point out that this question might sound racist and it kinda is.

till then a while back at my strip club nights I once got a lapdance from a stripper who was thick and had a humongous booty. she was in the same league as this...

and just like her she was white. I remember before the lapdance we were conversating and she brings up how people use to body shame her a lot growing up and how someone once called her a contradicting insult at telling her that she had a "white girl's ass." of course this means that was trying to say her ass was flat because after all big asses are more common in black women and latinas while white women get stereotype as having no ass. its gotten to the point that whenever a white woman does have a huge ass they will get called sellout, etc. which I find wrong because regardless of your race it will always be your genetics that decide what type of body you will have, regardless if your body is ideal to your race or not.

of course I disagree with the insult she got and I complemented her and she felt faltered and claimed most of her clients where black thanks to her physique. till then I always wondered, do women who have bodies that are/aren't considered ideal to their race feel flattered or insecure?

PS: I can write a book on why it might make them flattered or insecured

here's are some examples why:
- Mankind can be handed instructions to build skyscrapers, cars, phenomenons, bridges etc but when you hand mankind a bible (instructions) they are confused even after thousands of years.
- pastors are still committing adultry while preaching they have a great relationship with god (carl lentz hillsong pastor)
-There has never been a time in history where the umbrella of all christian denominations have come to solid conclusions to more then a handful of beliefs

if christianity wasn't confusing mankind could read the bible and understand it which would give mankind a REAL relationship with god which would actually make REAL christians that didn't cheat on their wives. Also people wouldn't argue so much