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I work at a very popular company, and I’ve been faced with sexual harassment. Many people have reported him and they are just now taking action. Even tho I had just barely turned 18, he was harassing me and other girls even when I was a minor. My mom wants me to go to HR then wait for corporate to file a claim then they’ll launch an investigation. I just can’t wait it out because he still works with us in the same department. He even talks to me sometimes even after the managers and HR department knows about his behavior. He won’t be moved into another department in another week. My mom puts this on me “do you want him to target other girls?” I don’t want to be selfish and I definitely don’t want to even think about him targeting even more girls than I’ve seen him target, but I don’t know if it’s fair to put it all on me to fix. HR exists for a reason. HR and every manager in our department is aware of his behavior already. The only reason why my mom wants me to go to them is for the lawsuit but I’m not sure if I even want to sue. What do you all think should I stick out the anxiety and fear until the company decides to fire him even though they don’t “have to?” Or should I save myself the fear and anxiety and quit? Do you think I should give a 2 weeks notice or should I quit on the spot. I’ve never been placed in a situation like this before, so I need the advise. I feel weak for quitting but I also feel stupid for staying.

So there is this guy that goes to a few of my classes and we are both majoring in the same program. I will be honest there was a part of me that knew he was gay based on how he talks, his mannerisms, and so on. Anyway since last semester I started to question why he acts so strange around me. He would act like he is terrified to death of me (keep in mind I am an alternative girl), sometimes he avoids me, he will feel comfortable talking with other people except me (in fact he will often grow quite with me), when I try to be friendly with him during a few exercises in my acting classes, sometimes he acts like a cat got his tongue when I try to talk to him (do keep in mind I am a shy and introverted person so even I am like wtf), one time at the end of an acting exercise I did with him, he gave me a thumbs up (I am not sure what that means but I assume that was his way of being approved of something), he said my name wrong a few times on accident, whenever we do lock eyes with each other he will look at me with relaxed eyes, he fixes his hair when he sees me from a distance, he came up and tried to strike a conversation with me once, he will say bye to me sometimes especially when it is just the two of us around and nobody else, one time his face lite up when he said bye to me, when I did acknowledge his existence and said hi to him he would give this prolonged eye contact, and in the beginning of the second semester we bumped into each other and he acted surprised saying “oh it’s you... good morning”. Those are just the few examples. Anyway, I am not sure what the reason is for his behavior around me... is he secretly attracted to me? Does he have a straight crush on me? Is he repulsed by me? Is it because he knows that I like him and trying to keep his distance? Does he want to be my friend but doesn’t know what to say to me? I don’t know what his deal is maybe I am over reading his actions when it turns out to be nothing? Someone please send help, lol.