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I met a man online I was very interested in. We had a private chat where he was very forward sexually and kept video calling my phone and telling me to answer straight away even though I kept telling him I wasn't comfortable doing that. He didn't even ask first. The next morning I told him I really liked him and I could see this becoming something more. His reaction was to act confused and to change the subject. I told him I needed some space to figure out how I felt about him because I get anxious when I start to care about someone. His reaction was to tell me my thoughts and feelings were wrong and that I needed to stay in the moment and stop being anxious around him, which made me feel like he didn't care about my feelings at all (how can you demand someone stop feeling anxious?). Then he told me he was live streaming on the webcam and that I should go and watch him, even though I'd just told him I needed space. When I went to watch him he was just flirting with other girls on there. He seemed busy so I left. I then got an annoyed message from him saying he thought I would have stayed to watch him. (Weird?) A few hours went by and he asked me what I was doing. I said I had friends over watching a film. I asked him if he was on the camera tonight and he snapped back "I thought you were watching a film?" Like he was annoyed. He said he was going out to meet a "friend" I asked him if he was going to meet the girl I saw him flirting with? He said he "didn't know" and that I "didn't even know what I wanted and he didn't know where we were at" i don't think that's true because I'd told him exactly how I'd felt about him that morning. He sent me this in an audio clip so I could tell he was being a bit moody and sarcastic. My point is, am I correct in thinking this guy could have been controlling and manipulative? I find it hard to trust my own judgement sometimes. The thing is so many guys I meet are like this I don't know if this is just a normal man!

We were having a talk about this among our female friends and most of them ( are straight) said that no doubt women are far more aesthetic and beautiful than men but blame it on the hormones, men are much more sexier and erotic for them despite being uglier.

What do you think?

This is kinda long so bare with me lol so basically there’s this guy doing the same course as me in my university, I found him attractive & he decided to start talking to me, everything is all good we hit it off straight away & we start talking about our past relationships etc. He told me he has commitment issues & I was fine with that because I’m not necessarily looking for a relationship myself so we talked about the idea of being friends with benefits. I told him I’d have to get to know him more & just take it day by day which he was okay with. But he started to act very different despite us not having done anything physical yet, he acts very rude & entitled. He doesn’t reply to my texts for hours but then gets mad when I don’t reply. The other day he called me asking what I was up to & I asked him why because I was curious & he just hung up the phone because I wasn’t supposed to answer with why. He kissed my face out of nowhere & he texted me saying that I shouldn’t get my hopes up about it. All of this behaviour was just turning me off of even considering having sex with this guy because I feel like the way he’s acting is strange because I haven’t caught feelings for him but he’s acting as if I have. So I decided to call him the other day when I was tipsy since he complains that I never call him & he got mad that I rang him while I was a bit tipsy & said that I was such a stereotype etc & that I don’t take him seriously (which I don’t get because he told me not to plus it’s hard to take him serious with how he likes to act like a massive douche). So I just blocked him because I just lost interest.

So I was just wondering like is this a normal method of trying to get a girl to have sex with you or? Because I’ve never come across someone that went about it so weirdly.