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I have been datiing this guy for about two months. I've known sinse I met him that he had feelings for this girl in my acting 2 class but some stuff happend that tore them appart and he told me she had moved on so I wasn't worried. We are all very religious so I'm sure he wouldn't cheat. I have always got the feeling that our relationship was week because of her even though he thinks she has moved on. I felt he's wrong. a week ago she was at this party and when we walked holding hands she was sitting on the stairs with some friends. He waved but when she looked up she gave us this look of fear and despair. she waved back and went upstairs. I heared she was crying from her roommates. She had told the reason she hadn't been talking to him was she was scared he had moved on and seeing us made her upset but she 'was happy for him. now I'm scared, they had both been afraid to talk to eachother. then on Sunday she asked him to come talk to her, that she was confused and wanted to get some things off her chest so she could let go. he looked himself in his room and wouldn't talk to anyone. (he even left his laptop and phone in the living room)... Yesterday we got out of class and she was in the hall reading, he asked her if she could talk then and told me he'd catch up later then kissed me goodbye. has they walked down the hall I pretended to leave but I just went into a class that has two doors so i could hear from the other side.
He asked her what was up and she said she was scared. of him. she expained why she had been distant and stuff and that she loved him and wanted him to be happy "even if its not with me" he had this big explaination about how he was scared too and had thought she was done with him. then he said he loved her, always has, but he was "in a relationship right now but if if doesn't work out I want us to try." he told her he really wanted her in his life even if it wasn't romantic. then he asked her for a hug. she told him she want afraid anymore.

So we both made it offical awhile ago that we are "talking" and that we aren't seeing anyone else but i feel like he's leading me on. Like we have only been on one date and it went amazing we kissed ( it was a group date) and after he said he had a lot of fun but then that week he started to be distant and it continued for almost three weeks and during that time he didn't say anything cute to me (like babe or goodmorning) and are convos were just about basic stuff and barely talking the whole day like we used too, then i started to really pull back and not say anything cute and barely text him then all of sudden he started saying cute stuff again. Like he posted on my social media saying "i love you ur so fine" and he also got super mad when he thought i was talking to other guy when a guy tried to get at me on my social media. So where im confused is that he only says really cite things here and there and never says goodmorning anymore and never calls/ft anymore just texting and are convos aren't deep their just basic wyd type of convos and we go from there. And the other day he called me fag but I don't know if he was kidding or not but i thought i showed him thag i didn't like that he called me that. I can't really go into all the details of me and him but we r in highschool and he doesn't really date a lot if im not wrong girls kinda friendzone him.. so I don't know if he is inexperienced or just leading me on and being a douche. Please help i haven't replied to any of his texts cuz i feel like he is how should i deal with it?

I was dating someone for 5 months, we were besotted and so happy. I got scared I was falling In love with this person, I called it off and knew from that second I'd made a mistake... I tried to fix it, but all we did was argue about everything for 3 months long, which shows there's clearly something still there. Anyway we were on a staff night out and we started arguing again, we went outside to speak and in the middle of this he kissed me... I walked away as I had anger in me, but he soon followed me and saw my crying, and so was he... And he told me he'd fallen for me, and I told him. The next day he's very cold with me and the past few days we've been texting but he doesn't answer after about 2 text and is distant? What should I do leave him alone or still try and show I want it again as I have said... Why is he acting like this now?