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His mom is super domineering, overly emotional and invasive. He moves across the country to get away and to be with me. Not so simple, cuz here she comes, without her husband to be close to her son... Meanwhile, he's been putting a tremendous amount of pressure on me to understand that his mother has to be (extremely) involved in his and our future children's lives... Next thing I know he is making all kinds of female friends, ones with bf's. I see a pattern of women needing him when there is another man involved... His p*rn activity has a lot of MILFs and albeit I am a MILF but I am a young MILF. He's also watched mother-son p*rn, cheating, female domination and tranny p*rn. I don't care if he's curious. I care about the emotional aspect. These women act like they have some claim to my man under the duress of being friends or family, and he likes it or seems to always find it... Then there's me, I am independent, a single mother, who is pretty and I respect the boundaries of relationships, be it with him, my family or friends... I think there's a sort of hero-narcissist thing going on with my BF and he is drawn somehow to the dominant and even domineering females. These women, including his mother, all have masculine facial features. His relationship with his dad isn't great, and so the whole tranny thing idk... I feel like I'm something he doesn't fully understand, more of a challenge, definitely emotionally stronger... He thinks I should just let him be friends with these girls, although it bothers me... but feeling like what I think a healthy woman should feel I don't if that is what is best... the only saving grace is that I may have an opportunity to get to know his mom and that would alleviate a lot of pressure for him... the other women, and his mother at times, really bothers me... He thinks my need for an emotionally exclusive relationship isn't reasonable... I think he craves the attention but doesn't like pressure

Do you every notice that life/work/school can keep you so busy your relationship suffers? Here is what I mean. As we get more involved with any of the three life/work/school we as people tend to forget or are so worn down by the end of the day our bf/gf/husbands/wives are ignored. I notice this seems to be a big problem in relationships even in my own. We are so wrapped up with things going on we don't make time for our someone special. We tend not to even notice. We may think about it in the back of our minds but nothing every becomes of it. Life gets busy, work wears us down and our partner may have the same things going on. Personally, I have been on both sides of this the busy side where my partner was not getting anything from me as well the side where I don't get anything from my partner. I am currently on the side of not getting anything and I know my partner is worn down from work but sometimes I just want some attention and am feeling lonely. I have been finding ways to keep myself occupied so not to let it bug me as much but still it does especially when I am home by myself. Have you ever felt this way? How do you handle these kinds of situations? Opinions?