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They had sex for one time in 2007 after my fiance attempted suicide for his ex. According to him he was too week physically and total activity of the intercourse lasted only for 3 to 4 minutes. I don't know if it is possible or not. But I have now way to verify it.

His ex ended the relation in 2010. When my fiance cam abroad for PhD in 2012, he used to focus on his PhD only. But his ex used to text him after few months to know about his status. He used to reply but never initiated conversation from his side. According to him he does not have any feeling but he used to reply her to understand why she was contacting him. Then she asked his phone number and talked to him around 20 times in 5 years (according to my fiance). Then the girl got married in early 2017 and she informed him about the marriage.

My fiance finished his PhD in the end of 2017 and added his ex name in the PhD thesis as acknowledgement. When I asked him why did you add her name as you don't have feeling for her; he replied that he does not have any feeling for her, but she was in his life for a certain time, that's why he added her name along with all other friends' names and family members' names.

The girl contacted him even after she got married but he did not replied. Even she contacted him few months ago, but he did not reply as the girl is now married and he did not want to ruin her married life.

I added this details to explain what he explained to me. Please give you opinion and let me understand and take a wise decision. I want a happy married life with no worries. I want to trust my soulmate.

So I’ve been seeing a guy for a few weeks. We talk everyday and have been on lots of dates and see each other quite a lot for only knowing each other less than a month.

One night he invited me over to watch a movie and I let him know I wanted to go slow and wasn’t wanting to have sex yet and he said he understands and is happy to wait. We saw each other more times after that and I went to his house a few more times and he asked me to sleep over and I said I couldn’t. Anyway he kept saying he won’t push sex he understands he literally just wants me to sleep over. Anyway I did and we mucked around but didn’t have sex and he said he was so happy to know we had chemistry because he was worried. I got worked up during us mucking around and said let’s do it and he said no he promised he wouldn’t do it the first night I stay and has a rule. We mucked around again in the morning and then he went to work and I said bye.

He seems a bit distant but even a few days before I slept over. he's still lovely when I message him and flirty but he hasn’t initiated messages with me first yet.
He’s currently moving houses and I’ve never moved houses so would that be a reason to become a bit distant?