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I like this guy, we'll call him Ben and his brother (they're the same age but they're 2 years older than me) can be Max. My friends teased me and posted photos on Instagram of stuff to do with me liking Ben and also messaged Ben quite a few times... which made him mad and so he messaged me about it, told us to stop, and told me that nothing will ever happen between us. I took it well, but then 2 days later he said hi to me and offered my friend and I chips... which I found odd cause I thought he was mad so then I messaged him later that day and asked him about it. He then told me that he doesn't hate me, he wants to be friends and he just wants all the drama to stop. Not to mention, a few weeks before that he asked me why I like him and if I think something will work (as in if something will happen). After all that he STILL stares at me whether he's alone, with friends or with Max... or with friends AND Max. Max even stares at me when he isn't with Ben, and none of Ben's friends ever tell me that nothing's gonna happen between us or that he doesn't like me like they did when I liked the last guy I liked. Also, I was walking past Ben and Max with my friend and Max looked at me, said something to Ben and then Ben looked at me and said hi then I waved and then Ben just stood and stared at me for a bit and then looked away. I feel like he just told me nothing would happen between us out of anger, what do you think? Thank you so much for reading!

I work with a guy who is about 16 years older than me. I think he's been staring at me for like the past year and a half, but I know this can be misconstrued.

But other things that I believe point to him liking me:

-he always asks me about other guys. I was dating this guy about a year ago, and he began obsessively asking me about him (in a teasing way). On Valentine's day he wanted to know what we were doing, and he literally chased me out of the office to ask (when I was leaving for the day). He did a similar thing when it was my birthday.

-The other week a guy was talkign to me and the guy in question came up to me and said, "that guy totalllyyyy has a crush on you" and just kept going "uh huh..." when I denied it.

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But I'm confused because he now has a girlfriend... out of nowhere... I don't understand why he never asked me out?

Do you think he ever liked me?

I like Sam (15 years old). I have been casually speaking with him for over a month. He's a total goofball. His mom (who is a substitute teacher) has been saying "Hi Madison!" to me every day in the hall. We met like one time 5 years ago so I found this a bit odd she'd remember me so well and always be so happy to see me. But whatever, she's just a nice lady. Then Sam's friends have been making noises when they see me in the hall. Sam used to do the same thing to me and sometimes still does. Lately he's been dressing up for basketball tournaments so every day I say "Looking spiffy" and he usually gets shy and smiles/laughs. He also treats me different from most girls, he usually pulls their hair and stuff and he doesn't do anything like that to me. He also defended me when I told him some girl was being mean to me and went up to her and called her a f*ggot for being mean. We sit together in band (assigned seats) and the girl on the other side of him (Carly) is seemingly mocking me for liking him. Every time I talk to him she tries to butt into our conversation and she'll repeat what I say to him and start laughing like I'm some loser and it makes me mad. Then Sam was sitting with Carly and her other friend and I had my earbuds in and then her friend turns around and is seemingly laughing at me and gestures to Sam and says "he wants to know what song you're listening to". Sam wasn't even looking at me! I just showed her the song and Sam glanced over at it too and then I turned around. Weird. But carry on. Now my birthday is on Saturday, so I invited these twin guys I've known my whole life over. Sam is friends with them too so I invited Sam over too. This would be our 1st time hanging out. He said "I don't know. Saturday. I don't think I have anything going on. I can probably come." Then I gave him my # and he told me today he tried texting it but it didn't register (he wasn't lying). So I gave him a backup #. So he might come over. I don't know does it seem like he l