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I've noticed some things about myself that make me wonder if I have commitment issues.

Family History: Mom and dad divorced when I was three. My mom has remarried *twice* (first step-dad left and the second passed away). My dad has remarried a very nice woman but he is a terrible husband (he has anger issues).

Relationship History: 1st boyfriend I ever had at 16 was very nice and liked me a lot but I broke it off with him after 9 months because I didn't see us to be very compatible. We got back together a year later for 7 months before I ended it again. 2nd boyfriend was my first love and we dated for 4 years before I ended it because he wanted to get married and I didn't. Since ending the relationship a couple months ago I've been casually dating with no intent on getting into another relationship until I feel ready.

Other fun facts about me: I've changed my college major 4 times and my career goals are constantly different. I'm inherently indecisive (or so they tell me) and take forever to pick out clothes or what I want at a restaurant. I have many friends but only one I tell all my secrets too.

Wow writing it all out really makes it seem rather obvious but maybe I'm just over analyzing things?

Long time friend.. period of intimacy a few years ago.. he has a history of being casual about relationships but would act weird when others were nice to me.. before and after he moved. Spent time recently at the lake and he told me to bring my bikini.. he rubbed my neck.. back.. legs and smacked my butt a couple times. When we were in the water he even splashed me a couple times.. this was new because public displays like that were not the usual. Just curious.. from guy standpoint: can intimacy take place for 6 months without some kind of eelinds? Not necessarily love but in general? Opinions helpful.. from girls too of course.. just curious from guys especially..

Me and my ex were together for just over a year and practically living together. We did a lot together - he helped me lose weight, get my drivers licence, and came with me to doctors appointments. We did a lot of firsts together and had/ have a great connection.
He went to jail for 3 months and I waited for him and he was appreciative and happy and was calling me everyday telling me he loves me and was talking about making future plans - we were getting serious and his mom even invited me over for Jewish Passover holiday. Now during the month of June we had quite a few fights over stupid stuff like what I should wear when we go out, my diet and I was also getting irritated when he was on his phone a lot and he was getting overly sensitive anytime I wanted to go back to my house for 3 days and then come back to him. He was scared of me leaving him and he also felt unappreciated , but I always showed him I cared for him - like going to the hospital everyday when he had surgery. Now he starts dating someone who is totally the opposite of me exactly 2 days after we broke up and after 3 weeks they are saying “I love you” to each other. But he says he still wants to work stufff out & possibly get back together. He still kisses me and has me sleeping over at his place during the week and only sees this girl on weekends, but he tells me he doesn’t have history with her like he does with me... and says he needs time and doesn’t prefer her over me right now and that it depends on me and doesn’t know what he wants to do. She’s a dark gothic girl and he’s a classy type of a guy who wears suits and likes to be well dressed and she’s way taller than him and is the total opposite of me - I’m sweet and sensitive, she’s the psycho angry aggressive type and dresses like a punk rocker - totally different from me!
Also it moved very quick - after 3 or 4 weeks saying that they are in love?
Is he in a rebound relationship? And is there a chance for me and him to be back together?