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Let's say you are 16 years old and 5'2, girls in your school call you short, ugly and weird. You had a crush on a beautiful girl in your school but she laughed and said I'd never date a guy as short as you. Another dude added if I was as short as you, I'd kill myself. Another girl said she hated you because your short and cute and your height ruins it. Your female friend told you, your ugly because your so short. You have a cousin living with you, he has the luck with ladies bought a few beautiful woman to the house but they never wanted sex with you and two of them thought you were 12. You have a little sister but she's bigger then you physically and likes to rub it in. Your best friend dates the beautiful sexy girl you had a crush on. You saw them on Facebook kissing and starting a family together.

You are the only virgin in your group of friends. You have one girl interested in you but she's fat, has Down syndrome and only comes over during the summer and lives far away from you. You go to bed every night with a hard on and sometimes wake up with blue balls. A week later you have a stomachache so horrible it feels like your guts are being ripped out of you, and you could barely move without pain and you have a high fever. you pooped on the floor and your parents had to help you to the toilet, wipe your butt, and clean your poop on the floor. Your sister says your disgusting and tells her friends. They giggle slightly every time they see you. You have A's and B's In school though.

So say an friends with benefits happens for a few months, they talk a lot and go on dates too, sex chemistry is awesome, communication is awesome. But the "what is this going on between us" talk hasn't yet happened.

The girl has feelings but doesn't want to ruin their relationship. So she choose to wait for the guy to start "the talk".

But in the mean time, are there signs that the girl can see from the guy? How to know if he only sees her as an friends with benefits or he sees her as more?

And, how long does it take for a guy to be sure to move from friends with benefits to a real relationship?