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This question assumes you'd be living alone and not with other people. You'd work downtown in a busy commercial area.

Would you rather live in a 20 square meter tiny room apartment a mere ten minute walk away from your full time, 40-hour-a-week job that's also quiet, dark and peaceful at night, and near a park?

Or would you rather live in a medium/medium-large-sized 70 square meter apartment that's an hour commute away from where you work that's also in a busy part of town with a ton of light pollution?

This is the tough decision I had to make ten days ago.

I have adhd. It sucks for many reasons, but it has a few benefits, like spontaneity, creativity, and if I get my mind to focus on the right thing, hyperfocus can be a positive trait as well. I'm also very passionate about many different things, and I don't know if that would be the case without ADHD. However a lot of basic life skills like organization, and focusing on the right things, are always a struggle.

I also have never found a girl who actually seems interested in me, but it is also possible that I have and just had no idea because I wasn't paying attention to the right things to realize this. I've never dated anybody as a result. I also tend to have very strong crushes on 1 girl at a time, and it is tough because the statistical chances that any crush is actually both single, and possibly interested in me is slim. For all I know, while my mind is on one girl, some other girl is really interested in dating me and I might actually end up liking them.

Anyways, any thoughts?