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I've know this guy for almost 10 years and i've liked him for about 3 of those 10 years,

This Easter weekend (Thursday to Monday) i had one of my friend come over and stay the weekend, since there was hell at his house (don't ask and i won't tell) anyway he stayed over, on Thursday evening when we went to pick him up i put my arm on the back of the back seat as to rest my arm, from there he asked me for a hug, which i agreed to, then when we got to my place he asked for a proper hug so i said just now i need the bathroom and he said "aw come on, i haven't seen you in however long and i can't get a proper hug" so i then said come with me to your bedroom so i can show you your room, then he said not until you hug me, he hugged me extremely tight that i couldn't breathe, then he we went to bed at 1:30 in the morning cause we were catching up and he was explaining the situation of what was happening at home, then the next day i was busy making my breakfast and he wanted coffee so i made it for him, then he complained that he was hungry and he was asking for things such as pancakes, waffles, etc which i didn't have due to needing to be paid my salary, then i suggested cereal and he said no, so i offered him egg on toast (which in the end i botched it up)
he said it was delicious and "f*ck man, you're a woman who can cook and i need to marry someone who can cook" i thought nothing of it since i have a boyfriend, then later that night he walks up to me and says "will you marry me?" in front of my whole family so i said i'll think about it since it was a joke... so then he said that he had already planned a huge wedding for us, then I said I’m sorry but I can’t get married to you then he asked why and since my mom is one who doesn’t like speaking of marriage I told him because my mom said I mustn’t get married because my mom won’t allow me to (I am going to get married at the right time)