Iv'e been dating this wonderful man for about 4 months about to be 5 we have had the most amazing time when we are together. We met about three years ago we hit it off really well. There was chemistry so and so we hooked up. We talked for a bit after because he pursued me for a bit but then after a while we just fell off it wasn't because of each other we just got busy with our lives. He was in the military then and he still is now. So when we saw each other again in December we both just kindof knew we would pick off where we left off and like I thought it did. We were super excited to see each other for some reason and so the first night at my aunts house we had ran away from everyone and we had sex. Anyway after he went back to Houston he got on a bus to head back to Fort Bliss in El Paso we didn't know that he had a stop at Dallas and so when he found out he called me right away and told me we had to meet because he had to talk to me. We had talked about how we wanted to be in a relationship and I did too but I was still doubtful which I always am because I am careful in who I trust. Anyway he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes then he asked me again when we met that night. He said he wanted me to understand what I was getting into. I said yes because I knew it would be hard but I was willing to try. After that we talked on the phone whenever we could while he was away at the field the I visited him in February 24th stayed the weekend and we were awesome! He told me he loved me for the first time & took me to places he'd never took any girl and I know its true because I know this dude from way back. Now when I asked him why he wants to break up he said "well im about to leave and imnot going to keep someone waiting for me and I dont want to wait until last minute , i have made up my mind its something I've been thinking about. I honestly just want to wait until im out the military.. plus if you join i doubt we will be stationed together".
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He just doesn't want to end up as one of the guys that ends up a fool that gets cheated on during and after his deployment. Im also doing the no relationship until Im out thing. I've seen countless relationships fall apart, pre, post, and during deployment.
A good friend of mine takes leave after deployment to get married, I see him a month later and he's single after his marriage. I ask why, and he simply says "her boyfriend".
He made the right choice in my opinion. Someone would've cheated be it you or him.1
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