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I saw a guy casually late last year -
we both agreed we wanted casual. After wks of talking we got intimate, he started staying nights, driving me to work, texting 'Miss me?' after only being apart 1 hr. I reminded him that we said 'casual' & asked to tone it down, be friends for a bit. He acted fine at the time - but was p*ssed off. He said 'I can't help that I wear my heart on my sleeve'. We eventually saw each other again, but it wasn't the same. He was rude at times, back-handed compliments.. I ended up asking him what was up and he said 'you get one chance with me, and I gave you a second chance, I never do that - so just give me time to get over it...' I agreed. Though he kept acting wounded and cruel & it got to the point where I was uncomfortable. One night at dinner he ref.'d to me as his 'gf' and when we got home I asked what it was, he said 'oh - im not ready for anything...'so why say it? & at dinner, he talked about how some girl in the room was 'eye f*cking him'...& how his 'model' ex gfs used to get so jealous when that happened.. kept going on and on about this cr*p - trying to get a reacton - finally I caved and said 'what are you doing, are you attracted to me or not?' and he hugged me saying 'aww, of course I am, and besides, I'm with you aren't i?'... it was really bizarre, he WANTED me to feel like cr*p. That night I had enough and ended it. He blew up mad, stomping around my place looking for his phone charger. I told him to just go and I'd send it. He sent me this text'thank u so much :) xoxox I got the charger i hope everything works out for u and take care ok?'. Then another like ':) xoxoxo' ... then 3 weeks later at Christmas. Now he's in a r/s with a girl (fake tan, boobs etc). I'm Wondering, why did he act so offended when i asked to be friends n cool it - when he didn't want a r/s with me anyway and liked trying to hurt me? Would a guy explain please?