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I was mad at him for a few days because of him saying "a friend told me I should hook up with you, but that is never gonna happen". It really hurt my feelings so I just focused on keeping my distance from him the next few days but he knew there was something up.

Finally, I decided to tell him I was mad at him and he so he set a meeting for us to talk the next day (he's my boss but kinda my equal too).

So the next day comes and I can tell it's all pretty chaotic. He cannot find a single moment to talk to me and I can see that. Then he leaves the office. I'm already figuring he's gone to lunch. But then he comes back and asks me if I had anything and if I wanted lunch with him. Later he asked me what I wanted and it seemed maybe he was wanting me to leave this time with him? (We always take turns going out to get lunch) I pretended I didn't notice.
As I was leaving later that day he apologized and said that we would talk soon.

Hour later, he's texting me asking if I had time to talk and then another saying since we had someone in the office tomorrow we should have time to meet or that I could call him tonight.

We talked on the phone for an hour and I let him know he hurt my feelings. He stated that he only said that because we work together. So I went ahead and agreed with his words it would never happen.

Today, I found out he was sick last night and today. He called out tomorrow.

Am I overthinking this or is this man in love with me? What should I do? We are having these 1 hour phone convos more often now and he's the only one that pays the most attention to me in there.

So a couple months ago, there was a situation where two guys came to my house at 10 at night ringing our door bell asking for a girl that actually lived next door. I know they must've been given the wrong address. But any ways, after my mom sees them on camera at our door, she tells them to leave, but one of them tries to open the door because he seemed attimate about seeing this girl because she had something she said she was going to give them. As far as the other guy well call "N", he was calm and on his phone. After they leave, the next morning, my dad ends up figuring out that two of his tires are blown out. My mom immediately blamed the two guys, and they didn't get charged, because our front camera couldn't catch what happened. But long story short, my mom hates these guys with a passion, and i knew both of these guys partially because I've talked to them casually In school before. So i ended up talking to the guy called "n" and we ended up texting to each other on snapchat. I wanted to get his input on the situation, and we ended up becoming good friends. He told me he wanted to meet my parents, but i told him that my dad said he would "snap his neck" if he ever came on his property again. Even when i told him this, he was still attimate about talking to my parents about what really happened. So my mom hates them both and is 100% positive that they did it, and thinks that I am being disrespectful and ungrateful for being friends with this guy. And she won't even take ten minutes out of her time to listen to what he has to say. Pretty much she thinks "n" is a threat to me, but he tells me everyday he loves me, and that im the best thing that has ever happened to him and that he has never smiled so much until i met him. I am so grateful for him because i see so much more in him than my parents think they know about him. They don't seem to understand that there are people everyday that are wrongfully accused for coincidences. So what do you think about this?