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So, it's a long story between he and I. We met in middle school and things took a serious, intimate turn in high school. We were each other's world. I moved to another school our sophomore year but that didn't stop us from being there for each other every step of the way. Sadly, we lost contact halfway through our senior year when some drama went down in my family. I've now finished my second year in college and we've found each other again. We picked up right where we left off like nothing ever happened and it was effortless. However, while I wasn't there for a couple years, he did start things with another woman about 4 or 5 months ago (we only got back in contact a couple weeks to a month ago). They seemed to have pulled each other out of whatever funk they'd gotten themselves into through phone calls and Skype calls (because we're in Texas while she's in Canada). I don't believe they've ever actually met in person. Anyways, she just left an abusive boyfriend yesterday for him and now he doesn't know what to do because "she's been fighting for something like this and has earned a good guy." But at the same time, he says he loves me and doesn't want to lose me again because he can't bear the thought. The thing is, I see it as like she saw him starting to be happy without her and she got jealous enough to act after he'd already had his mind and heart set on me. He didn't even see her as an option until last night after he got home from our date because it wasn't like she was ever going to leave the other guy anyways so why wait around? But now that she's suddenly done this, he tells me he doesn't know what to do. I don't want to lose a man I connect with so well, who makes me feel appreciated and respected like nobody else ever has. What do I do? She wants him to drop everything and move up to Canada to be with her. How long do I sit here and be patient for?

Girl 1 looks similar to these girls and she has an associate degree and she works as a waitress (she is what you would consider attractive), she is outgoing, high spirited, fun, and nice and she likes to take care of her body, she is not sure if she wants kids, she still is not sure what she wants to do as a career, but she wants to travel to different countries. She does not have a car but she ocassionally borrow a friend's car or takes the bus. she makes a lot less than you do. she lives with her parents.



Girl 2 has a successful career just like you, she looks similar to these girls picured below, she is what you consider average, she does not excercise regularly and she eats a lot of junk food, but she has a luxury car, a Bachelors degree or a phd and she comes from a family that is wealthy and she makes a lot of money, she is 100% certain she wants kids. She is overweight but she is healthy and she does not feel that she has to lose weight. she likes to read, she is funny. she has her own place