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I'm dating a woman, but I guess not for long. She makes me feel unwanted. We doesn't hang out so much. Maximum 3 hours per week. But she can hang out with her friends a lot more. Several days per week.

I don't drink alcohol but she does. She love to party with alcohol. She can party several days in a road.

I prefer watch a movie or taking a walk or travel somewhere. She like traveling too, but to party with others. When I'm traveling I want to see the city and shopping, not party and drink alcohol.

I tried to talk with her about this. That I feel left out, but it's feel like she doesn't listen. Feels like she doesn't care. She saying I'm not left out.

When we are hanging out, 3 hours per week it's like she is bored or something. She get tired very easily. We can watch movies, go out to eat and go to cinema or shopping.

Everytime we are going out to eat at a restaurant she always drink alcohol. And of course I don't. I almost always drink wather or Coke. She always ask me if I don't want an alhocol free drink. When she ask me that, it's feel like she wants me to drink alcohol too.

I think hanging out 3 hours per week is nothing.

Many times when we deciced to hang out, she cancel and say she had a headick. But later that day, she hanging out with others to party and drink alcohol.

I don't know what to do. I guess it's doomed. She love to drink and party, but I don't.

She saying I'm the most wonderful, caring and kindess guy. And she doesn't wants to loose me. But it doesn't feel like it. She say one thing but act the opposit.

I know there are other girls out there who doesn't drink or doesn't drink so much.

This girl she drinks when she is depressed, she drinks so she doesn't get tired so easily, she drinks when she goes to the dentist so it doesn't hurt so much, she drinks when she eat food, she drinks when she doesn't wants to be shy.

And I don't drink alcohol at all.