Search Results: don't want to lose my friend

I've met an amazing girl. Do I break up with her?

I met this girl at the beginning of college. She's was my best friend for about 3 months and then we decided to get together. We were happy for about 7 months until I found out that she'd been seeing another guy for about...

TommyJ29200

Xper 4 Age: 26

Dating

Girls, Girl still likes her ex?

I went out with a girl three months ago. The girl had a break up last year after being in a relationship with a guy for 2 years. We met for drinks and started making out. We hit it off really well from then. We met again...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Girls Making Dating Impossible and Setting the Bar Way Too High

Setting the bar way too high Let's start with the basics. every girl wants a hunk, a sweat heart; that 'Tom welling'from small ville or that 'hot football kid' you dated at high school. but let's be more realistic....

ttthhhhg

Xper 2 Age: 36

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Relationships

Girls, Should I tell her about my problems?

I've been kind of in a long distance relationship with a girl from another country on and off for nearly a year now. I was introduced to her via a friend, but i've never met her and our communication has only been online....

Gman79

Xper 2 Age: 46

Family & Friends

My life sucks and I don't know if I wanna live anymore what should I do?

honestly I've been having the worst year in my life that I don't know if i wanna llive anymore whats the point im suffering and depressed and nobody understands or even cares about me not even my parents. im 19 years old...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is he not interested in me anymore and just trying to be polite now?

I am a kind of extremely shy girl in front of people. And so, I rarely go out and meet anyone, except hanging out with my close friends sometimes. Mostly I spend time with myself or family, only. I knew this guy in 2015,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Want to ask my best friend out?

I am a male but my best friend is a female the two of us are really good friends we can talk about anything to each other, we get on so well we even told each other things we would not say to others, but I dont want lose...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Do you lose attraction for someone after you begin dating?

So there is this guy i really like, and he confessed he has never had a relationship for more than a month, because after he gets in one he loses all attraction for his partner and decides he rather be friends. He loses...

Bubblesxo

Xper 4 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Can a man be a good friend but he is not worth as a potential date?

I like a guy and still like him even if we dont hang out often or contact each other often, who I come to know more as a friend and as a casual friend he is easy going, fun to be with, always joking and he as any natural...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

I want self respect?

so my long distance girlfriend and i have been talking for 3 years. over thise 3 years there have been 4 times in which she's gone silent. the 1st time was because i never had plans to visit her so she felt what was the...

Shixorous

Xper 4 Age: 36

Girl's Behavior

She liked me and I liked her so I confessed, things got awkward and it's not the same again. What's going on? Why is she sorta avoiding me now :( ?

Ok so, a girl I've had no strong feelings for started flirting with me during soccer season and eventually I started to grow affections for her. I started liking her back and flirted with her also. She would always...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Girls, Am I cursed?

So there's a girl I really care about. I haven't spoken to her in 5 years. We started being friends again and when I told her I really cared about her still. She eventually opened up nd told me someone sexually assaulted...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

How do I tell him what I feel about him?

Ok so i am very much introverted and i dont have many friends, also People make fun of me most of the time. I tend to be more into myself and dont really share much of the stuff. with others. but then whenever i try...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Open Relationship or something unique?

Me and this guy dated for a short while, then dropped off for a month while I dated someone else. All the while me and guy#1 were still talking occasionally. When I dated him I became infatuated and wanted a relationship...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does this mean he don't want me back at work? Or overthinking?

Hi i have been sick off work about 3 weeks now. My best guy friend came to see me yesterday. He was so happy joking, laughing. But saying him and his girlfriend not that good, but yet i look good lost weight etc. I said...

Lynn1989

Xper 6 Age: 37

Dating

haven't heard from long distand girlfriend in a week?

so in mid January I (26) visited my long distance girlfriend (21) for the first time after talking with her on and off for about 3 years. We had an amazing 10 days together. I've been back for a little over a month now...

Shixorous

Xper 4 Age: 36

Relationships

Should I tell my friend that her boyfriend and I kissed?

Weve been to the same university for some years and me and him have always had that connection, but due to other boyfriends/girlfriends weve never acted out on it. Last year he got together with my friend and everytime we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My psycho ex messed up my current relationship? Lost a love of my life because of her?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I was with my ex for 4 years, it was a high school relationship. I was heart broken after but we would just fight and i needed to venture. Anyway i moved to America - New York and met

I was with my ex for 4 years, it was a high school relationship. I was heart broken after but we would just fight and i needed to venture. Anyway i moved to America - New York and met a gorgeous girl who just captivated me. I loved everything about her. I meet her a year after breaking up with my ex. We both dated from the get go, 4 months. I didn't want to make it official because i didn't want my ex to go psycho on this girl and also my work situation wasn't steady and i was likely moving in 1 months. Anyway, she stuck around. Another month went by but then she brought up what we were. I then told her that i got the job in Arizona and i think its best we break things off because long distance sucks and i didn't want heartbreak and to put a time frame on us. We we split. She felt lead on but wished me well. I believe someone then told my ex and all of a sudden she was heading to Arizona in 2 months to work there with friends. I move for work going nc with the newyork girl then my ex contacts me to go for drinks with her and her mates. I went more to give my ex closure. Im guessing the New York girl found out through photos my ex put on Facebook, next day im not her friend on Facebook anymore. I was instantly upset. Because she didn't tell me why. My number was also blocked. I then told my ex off and told her we need to stop and decided to take her and her family off my facebook. Its been 8 months now and i get word im heading back to new york for work. I contacted the girl by letting her best friend know on fb that im coming back. I then get an email a week later from the ny girl saying that she 'will always care about me' and she 'doesnt play games' and she 'doesnt want to make me jealous because its highschool crap'. However at the end of the email she put 'best wishes'. Which to me implies for me yo leave her alone. I want her back. I dont want to scare her awayIm at a crossroads. Which option should i take?

Sorry its so long, i guess im just in need of advice...

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He texts me everyday even when I don't reply, is he just being nice?

So I used to talk to this guy a lot in the earlier years of high school, but we didn't go to the same high school. We were really cool even though we didn't really get to hang out. He then got a girlfriend and went MIA...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

If you had one life-changing wish what would it be? why?

If i had a life changing wish, i would wish for love. love makes me happy. i rather be the ugliest human being in the world, but if i had love i would be just fine. i just realized this. i lost 40 ibs, get called the most...

Anonymous

(25-29)