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My ex and I broke up 2 months ago. But last night I was with my friends and my ex saw me. So he walked up to me saying he wanted to talk. But I kinda brushed him off. Because we have a lot of hashing out to do... and I didn't want to do it while I was drunk and he was obviously sober.

So I messaged him this mornimg saying if you still want to talk to me we can meet after I finish work. And so we are going to meet. But the question is where do I go?

I already made plans to go to a bar. I go there almost everyday. Its weird. But im friends with the owners and the other regulars there.. we are like family. Not customers. Sometimes we even bicker amung us and but we will always have eachothers back when needed. So because I already said im going there im thinking of just bring my ex there to talk. But we will probably be at a table outside. So he isn't literally in the shark tank.

But we broke up because my ex was treating me badly. Its complicated thats why we will hash things out... but I want my friends near by if things get too intense like they can step in and tell him to leave. but mostly im afraid in a momemt of weakness I might leave with him to hook up. Which I do not want to do. so I want my friends there to smack sense into me if it comes to that.

but I want your guys' opinion what to do