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My my first boyfriend cheated on me 3 years back ! and things were really really bad for me... but I ended up dating again but still couldn’t resolve my trust issues so I had to break up with my other relationships as well !
Nevertheless for the past 3 years my ex tried to contact me and he kept on saying he regrets hurting me and that he can’t move on because he still loves me... after 6 months of telling him to “leave me alone” I decided to talk to him, we spoke and went on few dates and we actually had a weird ex with benefits sort of a thing yes heat and chemistry was amazing !

Current situation: yesterday he went for a football match and he called me several times literally begging me to come to where he was, but since he was my ex (his friends/ my friends were there and they don’t know that we see each other) and since he was drunk I decided to not to go by giving fake excuses... he got super disappointed and then told me to stop talking to him. Today I called him and he cut the line and replied saying he was serious about telling me to stop talking to him. I apologize for not showing up and I asked him I did something else wrong but all he tells me is... chill chill or no you didn’t do anything wrong. And then he said he will call me but it has been 24hours and he still haven’t called me to tell me why he wanted me to stop talking to him just like that... any thoughts?

P. s He told me he didn’t have feelings for me and that he was finally able to move on! And knowing all that I decided to go and meet him because I wanted to stop hating him after what he did. And actually I did stop dating him... but now again I’m confused upon what he did..

So a person that I dated years ago got back in contact with me in October 2019. I noticed a girl on his insta I went a bit mental at him telling him what was he doing adding me when he has a girlfriend. That was he trying to hurt me again by adding me. He said they broke up but we started fighting and he blocked me.

Then a few days later I got in contact through snap saying that I wanted to stay in contact etc. We where snapping from then to now and he asked me to come see him for a holiday. He finally unblocked me last week on insta and all the phone calls etc really thought we had got back to where we once were. So I booked a flight that cost me over €500 euro.

So I was on insta scrolling through on the home page and a post was there of a footballer from Dec 2019 only 9 weeks ago and he tagged his ex in it. He was supposed to be single and he would have been texting me at this time.

I've asked him when did they break up but he hasn’t opened it. I’m furious and don’t know what to do? One friend is telling me to just relax as we only started talking again but other friend is telling me that he was using me.

I’ve been talking to a guy for a while now, and we both have feelings for each other, but haven’t discussed when/if we wanna take things any further. Before I found out he felt the same way, I was leading on other guys, and hooked up (just making out) with one of them. I’m not proud of this, especially because I had feelings for him back then as well, they just weren’t as strong as they are now.

I’ve stopped messing with other guys and now he is my only focus, but I feel like I should tell him about what I did. Everything I did was just because I got really hurt by my ex, so in turn I started messing around with other guys’ feelings. After my feelings becoming stronger for him, I changed the way I acted. Now I regret everything I did/said to other guys. Should I tell him that I was doing this stuff while we were talking? Although I had no idea if he liked me back then, and my feelings weren’t as full on either.

Starting to talk to him I had the intention of only speaking to him just to get his attention, not to actually get feelings. But obviously I realised how great he is and eventually caught feelings.