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Me and my boyfriend was arguing last night
I admit.. it is partly my fault
I've been accusing him of cheating and trying to attract other girls coz he gyms a lot and take pictures at the gym
I know he's just training and he's not talking to other girls like that but I've been cheated on so i think every guy would cheat
He knows about my trust issues because of my past relationships and my insecurities
We had a fight about this last night
And then he was sooo mad at me and said:
"You know what? Im gonna tell u the truth. I dont see you as wife material yet. you're just my girlfriend. I want to see you as a wife material but you need to fix yourself. You dont trust me and you're so insecure. We have been together for over 1 year. You would know if im doing something bad behind your back"
What the f?
He doesn't see me as wife material?
I got so upset when he said this to me 😔😔
But he does the following things:
- he's affectionate in public and private
- he likes to see me more than once a week
- he calls me everyday or night before we go sleep
- he puts pictures of us on his facebook and instagram and putting captions saying that "he loves me" and that im his "other half"
- he wants to go on vacation with me
- im the only girl out of all his exes that met his parents
- he says he loves me everyday
Etc etc
How could he say that he doesn't see me as wife material? :(
That shit hurts

I know this guy, says he's rich at least and says he's been with a lot of women, including models, college graduates, and actors. He's rich and successful. ( he's old enough to be my dad) I'm not rich or successful. He wants to get to know me because he thinks I'm interesting. But I have this strange thing with myself. I tend to feel inferior to friends who I think did more in their life than I did or who are smarter. I actually thought about what if this man was my boyfriend. He's rich, successful. And he's had so many girlfriends before me and it makes me feel insecure. He might leave me for a smarter, prettier girl or cheat. I'd prefer being with a guy that no one notices. The guy that barely has friends, the guy that girls and other people often overlook. I want him to be that special diamond that's only for me. He's nice, loving, funny makes a decent income but he doesn't get much attention from people, I want a guy that gets most of his attention from his family, two or three friends and me. I want him to be a virgin with little to no sex partners. Dating or being in a relationship with someone who's filthy rich, tall, good looking and extremely successful to the point he's popular. I don't like that. I really don't like the fact that guys I might date have ex's who are prettier than me. Is it bad that things like this bother me? I'd date a poor, depressed dude whos a virgin and I'd be happy but for some reason the thought of having sex with a rich dude makes me feel uncomfortable and insecure and I don't know why. What's wrong with me?

So my cheating ex contacted me out of the blues (broke up 3 years ago and my ex would always find a way to contact me every year) and I put few of our conversations on facebook to expose that dickhead and show everyone he's crazy and an idiot
And ofcourse my boyfriend saw the pictures of the conversations
He called me up and this is our conversation:
Him - so whats up with your ex?
Me - yeah he just contacted me out of nowhere
Him - which one is it? The arab guy or the filo guy?
Me - that arab guy
Him - why did u even talk to him?
Me - coz i wanted to know what he wanted. And then few minutes later, i blocked him
Him - what if my ex contacted me? And i talked to her? You wouldn't like that. You would go crazy. Im not going crazy
Me - yea.. why aren't u acting like u dont care?
Him - coz i dont care.. im not like you. Im not insecure
Me - yea whatever
Him - did you sleep with this guy? Did u have sex with him?
Me - *pause for a second* no i never
Him - why did it take u time to respond?
Me - coz I told u i never slept with him when we talked about our exes
Him - ok. I thought u blocked ur ex
Me - yeah i did but he created a new account. He always finds a way to contact me
Him - what if he stalks you? Does he know where u live?
Me - yeh he does and yeh there's one time he messaged me saying he drove past my house
Him - what if he text u to come outside?
Me - ill just tell my parents
Him - whats your parents going to do? he's probably stalking u. You know you can go to the police and get an apprehended violence order against him
Me - oh okay :/
Him - doesn't he know you have a bf?
Me - yeah told him that and he doesn't care
Him - what a prick. But anyway good you blocked him
Does this mean he doesn't care that my ex contacted me?
He seems normal about it
If he doesn't care, what does that mean?
He doesn't care about our relationship?
He doesn't care if my ex goes between us?