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So for the longest time I have thought that I have daddy issues. However, I’m not certain what the traits for it are. I basically grew up with a father that walked out on us every chance he got (one of the reasons is that he has schizophrenia and doesn’t accept it). Regardless he wasn’t around enough and whenever he was it was very unstable. Growing up I had a difficult relationship with my father, we use to fight a lot, he was very negligent, etc. Anyways about 4 years ago he got his shit together and even helped me get my degree without any loans. However, I’m not certain if the many years of neglect had an impact in my psyche. I’ve been in two long term relationships, one in high school and another in college (3yrs & 2yrs). The second one had a really shitty end, since I let my ex play with me for two years after the breakup. Ever since, I haven’t been in a relationship and have only had sexual relationships that tend to not last very long (my decision, don’t want to catch feelings). I find it very difficult to trust guys, or I tend to quickly feel in love only to realized that it really wasn’t the case.

Often, when I watch American student vlogs I see people complaining about their dress codes, their school has.

Now I'm in college and in the USA that would be equivalent to the last two years of high school. We don't have a strict dress code- meaning, girls aren't restricted from wearing things like crop tops, and off shoulder tops, etc.

I don't wear those kinds of clothes myself, I usually just come in jeans/leggings and a jumper or something.

A lot of these American vloggers say their dress codes are so strict so the girls and boys don't distract each other, and so the boys don't perv on the girls. Now I've been going to my college for over a month, and the boys don't care what the girls wear and vice versa, we all just come to class and get on with it, nobody pervs on anyone.

At my secondary school's sixth form, they have such a strict dress code, like you can't even wear hoodies or jeans to prepare you for the "working world" but the way I see it, if my workplace has a dress code, and I'm comfortable with it- I'll follow it, because I'm getting paid.

I'm leaning over to the 'we don't need dress codes' argument, but if you think you have a good argument to persuade me we do need dress codes- I'd love to hear it. :)