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Let's say that you've been chatting with this guy on an online dating platform, and you accept his offer to meet up, and go on your first date with him. You already know that he's an artist; and when he meets you, he's carrying a backpack with him, which contains a small portfolio and his art materials. You go to a cafe to chat, and in the course of your conversation, you ask if you can take a look at some of his work. Smiling, he happily agrees, and opening up his portfolio, takes out and shows you his latest piece of artwork, "drawn just last night, especially for you"- a portrait of you, adapted from one of your profile pictures on the online dating site, but in which you've been divested off all clothing to be fully nude, just like this picture here:

He hands it over to you, and tells you that you're welcome to keep it, or do whatever you want with it. So, girls, if a (fairly handsome, athletic, dashing and debonair) guy did this, adapting one of your profile pictures and handing you a nude sketch of yourself like the one above, on your first date (along with assurance that it's the only one in existence), how would you react? What would you say to him upon seeing it, what would you do with the picture (frame it and treasure it, take it and hide it away, scrumple it up and toss it in the nearest trashcan, tear it apart and toss it in his face, or spit on it and try shoving it down his throat?), and how would you feel about it? What kind of chance would the guy have of getting a second date with you?

I have heard people say, too often, that men borrow up their emotions. To me, I can understand why people think this, however I don't think it's true. I believe that every guy has at least one friend that they feel completely comfortable opening up to.

This can be misinterpreted as bottling up but I see it more as acting appropriately in a given situation. For example, when there is danger, men tend not to succumb to fear and immediately jump to action while only processing the emotion after the danger has passed. Sadness and anger are generally held onto until dealing with those emotions is least harmful.

These are my personal experiences and I just want to see what others feel