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I’ve been friends with this girl on and off for 9 years. Last week we made plans to go clubbing for her 21st birthday on Friday but my boyfriend wanted to hang out instead and I wasn’t responding to my friends texts but answered a call and she was pissed and said nasty shit about my boyfriend. She thinks he’s manipulative etc and she thinks I put him before her. (I’ve been with him for 3 months). I bought her stuff and tried to apologize earlier this week but she still seemed pissed. We were supposed to go to the same club this Saturday and she took off of work. However, everyone who’s going is going with their SO, she doesn’t have one and is too scared to meet up with a guy from a dating app and doesn’t want me to invite mine because she doesn’t wanna be left out etc and it’s too much drama. I lied and just messaged her that I’m supposed to watch my aunts kids this weekend so I won’t be able to go. She hasn’t responded but I don’t feel like putting up with all the drama and feeling like I have to babysit her and entertain her. she's never met my boyfriend but already hates him. She will become jealous and bitchy and yadda yadda and be up our asses. She said I take years to respond to her but text my boyfriend back in 2 seconds and I always show up late etc. My parents are super strict about what I do and she knows this. She always asks me every week about meeting up but now I don't know. She becomes really mean and bitchy and controlling. She lives 5 minutes away and we get together at least once or twice a week to talk or go for a walk and I like hanging out with her but not for extended amounts of time. Do you think I’m a bad friend? Do you think she will talk to me after this?

Me and my ex were together for just over a year and practically living together. We did a lot together - he helped me lose weight, get my drivers licence, and came with me to doctors appointments. We did a lot of firsts together and had/ have a great connection.
He went to jail for 3 months and I waited for him and he was appreciative and happy and was calling me everyday telling me he loves me and was talking about making future plans - we were getting serious and his mom even invited me over for Jewish Passover holiday. Now during the month of June we had quite a few fights over stupid stuff like what I should wear when we go out, my diet and I was also getting irritated when he was on his phone a lot and he was getting overly sensitive anytime I wanted to go back to my house for 3 days and then come back to him. He was scared of me leaving him and he also felt unappreciated , but I always showed him I cared for him - like going to the hospital everyday when he had surgery. Now he starts dating someone who is totally the opposite of me exactly 2 days after we broke up and after 3 weeks they are saying “I love you” to each other. But he says he still wants to work stufff out & possibly get back together. He still kisses me and has me sleeping over at his place during the week and only sees this girl on weekends, but he tells me he doesn’t have history with her like he does with me... and says he needs time and doesn’t prefer her over me right now and that it depends on me and doesn’t know what he wants to do. She’s a dark gothic girl and he’s a classy type of a guy who wears suits and likes to be well dressed and she’s way taller than him and is the total opposite of me - I’m sweet and sensitive, she’s the psycho angry aggressive type and dresses like a punk rocker - totally different from me!
Also it moved very quick - after 3 or 4 weeks saying that they are in love?
Is he in a rebound relationship? And is there a chance for me and him to be back together?