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My friend Caitlin, which I call (Kate) is causing problems for me well here is what happened: on Friday I got on the bus and Kate sat by me and she was talking about my friend Madison and she was talking about her weight and I said she is "A little bit bigger then some other girls but she is not fat" (well Madison is not skinny and she is not fat she is just a little chubby as I would put it I don't like to call people fat) And well On Monday I came back to school and I walked into class and Madison wouldn't talk to me at all not one word I tried getting her attention but she wouldn't talk to me, on Tuesday I talked to Hattie she said Madison is mad at me because someone told Madison that I called her fat and Kate was the only one I talked to about that so I automatically assumed it was her then when I get home Madison texted me and we got into a argument and she started calling me a bad friend and that I was a bitch and a little shit and that I shouldn’t call her fat but I did not. (Kate twisted my words around) but Kate is sort of 2 faced she talks about her friends to me and call's them sluts and they are disgusting and etc.. and she ruined my friendship and lied and twisted my words around and she likes to be the center of attention when Madison and I stopped talking Kate became the center of attention and she has done this to me 3 other times, what should I do should I drop her? Is she a bad friend? Is she ruining my life? Please help who is wrong in this situation?

There's this guy I've been talking to for a while now. He's sweet and I really enjoy talking to him. When I first meet him, I sort of avoided him. I didn't find him physically attractive at first. But when I spent an hour on the bus and train with, I got to know him better. He's a about a year older than me. I realized that I felt comfortable talking to him, I felt like myself. I didn't feel like I have kt fake anything. Usually when I have a crush on someone, I have a hard time talking to them, but not with him. I love how when he's talking with me, he listens to me and pays 100% of his attention to me. I feel special every time I talk to him.

The only problem is that I realized he talks to a lot of girs in his grade. I don't know what they talk about, but what if he's like that with every other girl. My friend was telling me today that she talked to him before, she told me everything they talked about. I noticed that he talked about more serious topics with me and about his personal life.

Ugghhh. I can't tell if he likes me as a friend or maybe more. What if he talks to everyone like this?

I really want to message him on fb, but I don't know if I should. I don't know how to start a conversation with him. The first time I meet him, he was the one that started the conversation.

I never had a boyfriend or kissed anybody. I'm new to the whole dating thing. Can you give me advice please?

We will call him Bob. I'll start by saying we forcefully have to be together for math club. After club meetings we usually talk for a while, somewhere along the line I begun liking him. One day Bob asked me if I liked him, and I said yes, he said he liked me too. For a month we were talking as a couple, and doing couple things (ei: hug, hang out, walk with his arm around me etc.) His mom even knows my name, and says hi to me, I know he talks or has talked to her about me. Then out of no where he tells me that we can't be in a relationship, because he realized he never really liked me, he was just "pressured" into it when I never forced him too and he was the one that wanted to start the "thing". Then at math club Bob didn't even talk to me as if he was more heart broken than I. Today at a math competition Bob then kept on standing close to me as if he wanted to hold my hand, and I just put them in my pockets. Since I was the only girl, naturally I was talking to guys, specifically Tom. Tom and I were laughing, and Bob kept on interrupting our conversation "in the name of math". He made me feel bad about relationships, and then he doesn't let me talk to other guys. I kept on talking to Tom, because Fuck Bob. Tom and I were talking loud then he asked me if I liked anyone. I said no one, and then Bob gave me a sad look as if he was expecting me to say him or something when he was the one that ended our "thing". going home was dark I was going to take the bus. Bob said he felt bad because he didn't like the idea of me being out there in the dark alone because things happen, as if he cared about me. Bob's mom offered me a ride, I said no, I mean how awkward is that. Tom's dad offered to take me home and I said yes because Tom lives close to me. Bob acted offended. Like he doesn't want me to move on, but he doesn't want anything with me, but he cares, and I'm just like why Bob! Bob just pisses me off and I don't know what to do anymore. Does Bob like me?

I know this guy named Cory who goes to my school. We met at the beginning of the school year when I joined cross country. He was helping me out because this was my first year running, and I pretty quickly had a HUGE crush on him... and I still do. Then I think he started to flirt with me, he would joke around and make fun of my height (I'm really short) and then on bus trips we would mess with each other (hid things from each other, take each others hats, push each other around). Things were going really well but then at the last cross country meet one of my friends came up and said "is this the guy you've been talking about?" but I was with 3 other guys so it could have been any of them. Cory kept on bugging me who my friend was talking about, I lied and said someone that made absolutely no sense... so it was really obvious I lied. Since then we still say "hi" and smile when we pass in the hallways... but things have gotten REALLLLY awkward. Also, he isn't following me on instagram but he did comment on one of my photos that had him in it from Cross Country. One other thing, I have a lot of close guy friends that I mess around with (my friends think I 'm flirting with them, but I'm not) and Cory has seen me mess around with them so maybe he thinks I'm just like that with all guys and I don't actually like him. Anyway, the holiday dance is coming up and I really want him to ask me out... what should I do? Do you think he likes me, or is he just like that with all girls? Do you think that he thinks that I like him?