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Can someone explain this to me please? I am extremely baffled. Please note I met this girl off a dating site and she is extremely into me. She out right said so and shows it! These events are not in chronological order

Signs she has a bf:
-When I first met her on a dating website, i heard through a mutual friend who recognized her, that she has a bf. I asked the girl this, she said no
- I was bored one day and texted her number via a texting app and said "hey do you have a bf?" and she said "who is this? and yes"
- She told me she put her # online to get support for her problems. I took advantage of this and texted her pretending to be one of her supportive, new, online chat buddies. I asked her how her relationships have been affected and if she's in one, she said she's been in one for 2 years. (I FOUND THIS OUT 3 DAYS AGO) When I asked why she was on a dating website she said "We took a break"

Signs she doesn't have a bf:
-Again, me asking her, as well as a different mutual real life friend, asking her. She said no
-She got offended and insecure that i messaged her flirty best friend, asking her an innocent question
-Shes out right flirted with me and told me she's looking for something long term
-We got into an argument one time and she threatened to go date one of her friends, as well as reactivate her okcupid account ( a month ago)
-When I ask her about dating, she goes "im extremely depressed and going through alot, i wanna be single for awhile"

As you can see, i "Creeped" and found out she might have a boyfriend. How do i get that info out of her? I need to know the truth! she's telling strangers (anonymous me) one thing, and me something completely different!

The following question:
"Does this guy actually love me? From selfharm (cutting) to not being responsive at all.. Male logic? Should I contact him or not?"
inspired me to ask this one.

Do you think a relationship that happens EXCLUSIVELY on Skype, and you have NEVER met in real life before, but you DID show off your naked bodies and pleasured yourself to each other through the webcam, do you think that qualifies as a REAL relationship?

My take is that "No", it does not. Physical contact is a necessity, learning the other person's behavior in an actual real-life setting is essential to determining the information that would qualify as saying you actually KNOW the person, rather than just what he thinks and what he says through a webcam. Albeit what one thinks is important, their actions also speak for themselves, and an "internet-relationship" is therefore constructed based on a distorted image, rather than a real one. This is similar to being delusional due to being in love and placing the person on a pedestal, except you even add more onto the table for the parts that you CANNOT know, as you have never actually met.

Maosource in the related question called me 'closed-minded', although I think she's just rather biased and unwilling to see that such a lack of information regarding the other person as an individual somewhat breaks the definition of an actual romantic relationship at about three points. (not to mention that they're showing off to strangers on the internet, and that they're playing mind-games on each other, while also being controlling, and as the question shows, hide their heads in the ground at the realization of this being more of a game than a relationship.)

Therefore, I'm somewhat curious what the non-blocky portion of GAG thinks about this.