Search Results: why girls give in so easily

I don't compete for girls. That's not to say I don't approach them and try my luck. But once I see that she has options around her (better options than me, to be honest) I back off. I don't join the chase because a part of me knows I'll never catch her.

It also seems pointless trying to fight for a girl who has her mind made up. I believe that if she wanted me, she would have chosen me out of all the suitors(yes, she knows I'm interested). She is completely capable of making her own decisions. Why should I joust with another man to win her affection and possibly go against her grain of interest? It doesn't seem very wise from my perspective.

In the end, she's happy with her choice and I get to move on.

So, am I a quitter, or am I wise?

I want to tell this girl I like her. Kind of. I think she likes me too..

any way..a little story to get an idea of her talkin' with me.

We met through her brother. She asked me kinda in a jokingly way, why we weren't friends on Facebook (then I knew she wanted me to add her). So we became friends on Facebook, we talked here and there and it seemed to go well each time. I gave her my phone number and didn't end up talking to her for a week, until she texted me and that giving me her number.

So then we talked for about 2 days, then we stopped talking for 8 days. Turns out she facbook poked me out of no where, (I feel like she is playing games for attention). So that went on back'n'forth.

I've made it clear to her I'm attracted by throwing funny pick up lines at her, making jokes, having fun in general.

She doesn't seem to text me, only use Facebook to get to me more so.. I don't know why? I'm trying to play hard to get as well if that's what she is doing and not giving in so easily to talk with her every chance I get.