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Soo we were in a long distance relationship for 9 months. We used to meet at least once a month. And now it's been more than 2.

1. Last time we saw each other ended up in me being moody and sad and in the end I told him "I wanna go home". He says "I wanted to ask you to move in with me but you were acting up"

2. Exactly 2 months ago, he asked me to visit his family for his mother's birthday. I said "do I really belong there?". He said yes, she loves you. But later he cancelled.

3. Then he asked me to visit me for a weekend. I said I was too busy with work. I lied.

4. Just a few days later he casually mentioned a vacation with friends. He didn't ask me to come. I understood it's only guys and they'd stay for a week. But then they decided to stay for another week. We barely spoke. And I saw posts on Instagram by his friend's girlfriend (so she was there! And there were some more girls that I don't know). However, I didn't ask him anything about it. I was just thinking, he will return, and then he will want to see me.

5. And he returned. And he broke up with me. Through text. He didn't give me any explanation except it's better to just be friends. I blocked him on whatsapp but he texted me on Instagram. "Why did you block me :(" And we kept talking every day a bit and he sent me money and he says he wants to take care of me even if we're not dating. And that I should go date someone else.

He says he loves me and misses me. I asked him ok and when will I see you? And he said he would visit me soon.
Today I finally started to feel like I'm over him and when he asked me how are you, I said relaxed. I told him to stop calling me cute names and sending me 😘 emojis and he asked me why. And he sent me some of our photos kissing and some photos of me I've never seen before. I just replied 😂😂😂 and he asked me "Do you want me to visit you?". And I said I'll tell you later.

I thought the guy I confessed my feelings to liked me. He showed a lot of signs of interest towards me, but I guess I was wrong. I told him how I felt and then he told his friends a lie, which his friends of friends spread a lie. When I found out what he said, I told him off using name callings and telling I am with someone else (I am now but it’s not serious, it’s more like “friends with benefits”. This has been bothering me for a while) and denying that I didn’t feel anything anymore, I don’t think what I told him hurt him. But when I saw him again I saw that he was hurt, apologetic, sad, guilty. He look like he was going to approach me but couldn’t as he was working. I just wanna know did I read to much into what I thought we had? Why did he do what he did? He was the one trying to reach me. Please answer honestly