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Quickly before I describe modern dating I am just gonna say that traditional dating was killed by Feminism. The question is if girls benefitted from this or not. It seems only some girls did.

So, modern dating is a joke. It's not dating. It's pretty much centred around casual sex. Yes, casual sex is now how we get our relationships. Now first of all no one "dates" anymore, not in present day America. Instead, people just fuck. Literally. Apps like Tinder are proof of this. Most young people are on these and just browse these apps, looking for attractive people and only wanting one thing with them. So pretty much women initiate these hookups. The guy goes to her place, they put on some music, fuck and then he leaves. Is this how shallow people have become? After that they may keep chatting and something might develop but it rarely does. This is modern dating. This also includes bar hookups. Anyways, that's how pathetic "dating" is. No one "dates". They fuck for months until on of them catches feelings and wants more. Young people have tons of sex partners, countless. A 20 something American woman is the most sexual person on the planet and has slept with more people than anyone else. Girls literally fuck different guys all the time that they meet on these apps and stuff, of course this is all because Feminsim thought them too.

But like I love sex, and hooking up is great - but not when it replaces dating, People have always hooked up but it has never been as shallow and pathetic as Tinder hookups these days. So as we all have to endure it, I wanna know how you feel about it. I assume most girls are happy with it, considering how sexually active women are and how much they hookup, they also are a huge portion of these apps. It's a sad truth that girls no longer want love and instead want random guys they've never met to just come fuck them. It's sad that dating is dead but I guess I have made the most of it. It is good to fuck lots of girls I must admit.

So my 30th birthday is coming up and I feel a bit down about it. One thing that gets me down is I'm going to be 30 and still a virgin. Not just that but I also never actually had a girlfriend. Actually I never even kissed a girl. This makes me feel like some weirdo or a loser.

I mean I have gone on a few dates before but not many, less then 10. I have had a handful of women ask me out on dates but for the most part I would just turn them down since I wouldn't be interested in them.

I only asked out a few women myself, less then have asked out me. But the thing for me is I find I have to get to know a girl and become her friend before I start to find myself interested in dating her. So by this point they usually just see me as a friend or they have lost interest in me or they were never interested in me to begin with. That and I am just horrible at picking up on when someone is flirting with me or is interested in me, I just assume they are being friendly.

I like to think that I'm a normal, nice guy. But just had bad luck. That and I'm a bit of an introvert so I have trouble meeting and opening up to new people. I wouldn't consider myself unattractive and I have had many women tell me they find me attractive so I don't see it as that. Whenever anyone mentions my past relationships or sexual partners I just lie since I find it so embarrassing.

I'm curious what women think of a guy like me. Do they see me as weird and a loser? Would they actually have an interest in dating a guy like me or no? What are just their general thoughts on a guy like me? Any advice you have for me to help me change this situation I'm in? Give me your honest opinion.