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This guy and I are incredibly shy at work. I’m 20 and he’s 22. He doesn’t talk to many people. At first he didn’t really talk or socialize with me. Last month I overheard him whispering to another guy and they were both looking at me. He does things for me without me even asking (getting things for me, holding doors open, helping get things that we need for next shift). Also very recently (as in like two weeks ago) he has started to sit in the seat I always sit in at this table (he never stays to eat lunch but recently has). And I always sit a few seats away from him. I said that’s my seat and he said with a smile oh I thought it was my seat and I’m like no it’s mine I always sit there and you know this and he laughed and said oh ok. He also bumps into me a lot but recently I’ve been jumping back when he comes near me (lol). He held the door open for me one time and said you’re welcome loudly in a joking voice and I said no and stuck my tongue out and then he laughed. When it’s the two of us and I am talking he just says yeah or laughs and doesn’t really say much in response. When I ask him a question he does answer. It’s very awkward when it’s the two of us. We are both awkward and shy. He hasn’t made a move on me and I’ll admit sometimes I do blantly avoid him and sometimes I flirt with him and he does the same thing to me. He doesn’t go out of his way to help other girls, hell he doesn’t even talk to other girls at my job. He seems more comfortable talking with guys but I guess I’m the same since I talk to girls more than guys but I don’t go that way.

Two months ago, I got a job on a different floor, away from this cute guy I had a crush on. We used to always stare at each other and there was some vague flirting between us. Nothing too intense, but definitely a vibe.

i saw him a month ago (after not seeing him for a month), and he looked at me but said nothing. Not hi or anything. In fact he seemed kind of blank, not emotion whatsoever. Then yesterday he happened to be on my floor, and he saw me but looked away very quickly before I could say hi.. it kind of seems like he’s either trying to pretend he doesn’t care but is shy. Or genuinely doesn’t. From a guys perspective, which do you think it is?