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so my bf's old friend came back after very long and they decided to catch up so they talked on the phone. on day 1 when she's back, they were on a call for 10 HOURS and on day 2, 5 hours. i found out on day 2 and was REALLY ANGRY not because he might be firting and up to something or anything but bcos he didn't consider my feelings and went to talk to another girl for 10 hours? when i confronted him he said he's sorry he got carried away because an old friend came back. and he will talk to her less if thats what i want. but im really annoyef with the fact that he doesn't put me first and thinks about my feeling as his girlfriend. so angrily, i initiated a break up. should i have accepted his apology and forgive him or did i make the right choice?

abit history of us, tho im letting bygones be bygones. 1 month into the relationship, my boyfriend sort of cheated me but not really. he was calling this girl every single day and lied to me about going to sleep when he was actually calling her. i forgave him after he broke all contact with her, apologized and stuff. we have been together for 6 months. recently, i found out he has been calling this girl daily - for 2 days. a different girl. i asked him for the details and he said its an old friend he's catching up with. he said they didn't talk for a long time so now they are chatting again. the thing is, the first day he called the girl from 6pm-4am (10 hours) and the second day, the moment he woke up to the moment she slept (12pm to 5pm) weird timings as they have time zone differences. should i break up with him because of this. the thing is he knows im sensitive abojt this type of stuff and shldnt he consider the fact that he has a girlfriend and think about my feelings? calling a girl for THAT long for 2 days straight. 2 days ONLY bcos i found out today and confronted him. if i didn't, it wld have went on for I don't know how many days. am i being reasonable to break up with him?

Okay I have a long time boyfriend, and we're over the year mark. 90% of the time I am very happy with him, and am a perfect girlfriend, but I have these spells where I feel trapped, and want to be single. It lasts for hours, days at most and then I'm back to normal. I usually start a fight and leave until it wears off. I don't cheat every time, but if it lasts more than a night I do. I know it's wrong, but don't judge me. I don't want to occasionally feel different than I usually do, when I'm in that mode I have no intention of staying in the relationship, but it always wears off and I want to be with him. Lately I've been thinking that he knows I cheat on him but pretends not to. Last time I stayed at his best friends cousin for 2 days, and his best friend told him. I admitted that I stayed with him as friends for 2 days, and admitted to sleeping in his bed, but denied having sex with him. My boyfriend either believed me or he is okay with it. I love him and if I could be totally honest with him we could be even closer. I want to somehow figure out if he knows or not, but I'm afraid if he doesn't know everything will be ruined. I'm thinking of cheating, and having that person text him and tell him, and seeing if he mentions it. If he doesn't then I know he knows and we can finally talk about it, and I wouldn't have to worry about losing my relationship every time I mess up. If he doesn't know and he gets upset then I'll just deny it, and act angry. If he isn't okay with it, but forgives me anyway, what's the best way to cheat and make it seem like I'm definitely not? I'm pretty sure he's cool with it, because he's always leaving me alone with guys, he never checks my phone or social media, he doesn't check up on me to see if I am where I claim to be, and never surprises me. He won't show up without texting me and letting me know when he'll arrive. I want to let him know so badly, but without having to have a conversation. Like I want to show him. Advice please?