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So my husband has been pushing me away for awhile and getting upset at me for everything so I gave him space but I noticed it was getting fishy. Well I did start monitoring his phone and seeing if there was something going on and he did go to a strip club and tried to lie to me about it and when I asked him what he did or if he got anyone number or gave his number out he said no I didn't nothing like that. So I checked his phone and he did get a stripers number and when I asked him he told me he did that on purpose because he wanted to see if I was monitoring his phone and to see if I would come clean and shit like that and then he tells me it was the only way to do this was by getting someone's number! And now he's upset at me and says he lost all trust he had for me but this was the second time he has starting "talking" to another women. And when I asked for a divorce he quickly stated all the shit he would lose materialistically Speaking and that maybe we should just separate for awhile and think about whether we want this relationship or not and I don't know if he's holding out cause he will lose money or if he is really sorry for what he did and now he's upset some more cause I'm pushing for a divorce.

We had deeper arguments than the usual this year. one involved him pushing me to the ground and resulting me using my fist. I don't agree w/ relationship violence, but it was horrible. We make up then we argue. I know, yeah we spend a lot of time together. Mostly with his friends. (Oh yea he sells weed, so yea). Last week started horrible. I used his phone and dm'ing other girls some were old some was recent. He has a tinder & I look through it to see what is said. Flirting & more flirting. I get upset & he gets mad at me. After I get off work, he says he never has cheated on me & would never. Hugs me in a tight hug, I cried because I felt like I still didn't believe him. That's when the whole dynamic of our relationship changed. He has came over my house and spent the night three days in a row (I believe it was guilt). Saturday he has avoided me. All day, all night. He reply to me when I would surpass at least three msgs and a phone call. Then it gets later and I go to his house. Basically, he left me crying all night. Then the next day he was gone from his house & I bugged him again. He invited me over w/ his friends, he embarrassed me w/ his "plugs" text that was a meme "of what your girlfriend thinks yur doing, (a pic of asses everywhere in some guys face) he calls him n leaves the room "that's funny u texted that..." I assumed he was at a strip club. I didn't care just the principle. I was right. We argued I left. I didn't text or call he calls me saying "wrong number" purposely. I didn't react so I didn't call back or text him. The next day he texts me "hey, wyd" I didn't reply or call. It upsets me to even think about it. He hasn't done anything either. What should I do?