Search Results: guys night out buddy

Have we moved from going on dates to actually dating?

I've been out with a guy 3 times and we talked about doing dinner again this week before he goes to Europe for 2 weeks vacation. The last time we hung out we spent 9 hours together watching Pro football in the morning and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

So confused.... What do I do?!

So this girl and I have been seeing each other for quite awhile. Nothing serious. Beginning of the month I told her how I felt and how I wanted to go out with her. She said she needed to think about it. Last week we went...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What does it mean when a guy says, "I've had a lot of stuff to deal with lately?"

Long story short. He gave me his number. We talked, got into deep intellectual conversations, he said I was pretty, etc. Then he said. "You're definitely cool enough to be friends with. Lol." out of nowhere. I though I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

I'm really beginning to think he is shy. I've never encountered his type. Do I contact him first?

So, there is this guy my age - 21 - that is at my college and we had been conversing Tuesday through Friday of last week. We had some really good and really deep intellectual conversation. I felt a possible chemistry. He...

missgirlygirl

Xper 5 Age: 34

Other

Is he into me? The signals he is giving me and what he says are confusing me

i met this guy 3 weeks ago and it all started with a 6 hour long convo, followed by drinks the next night. 2 days later we were hanging at his place having pizza and watching a movie and we had sex. Amazing sex! He...

Fiery178

Xper 3 Age: 48

Break Up & Divorce

Many guys my age like the single life too much. How do I find those who don't?

I'm 21 and I'm recently single (it's been 3 weeks). Throughout my 2 year relationship, I rarely went out with my friends because their night out is always Friday and Friday was my set ''date night'' every week. Now that...

Ingrid422

Guru Age: 33

Flirting

He called to say, 'do you mind if I stand you up'?

Hi, I met someone at a dinner last month. He asked for my phone number there after - told me to let him know if I wanted to hang out. Sure, I said. At that time I had visitors though, so 2 weeks went by and I didn't get...

missangee

Xper 5 Age: 52

Girl's Behavior

At what age does the cliche "Bros before Hoes" become obsolete?

At what age does the cliche'd "Bros before Hoes" become obsolete? Would you ever, (God forbid you are put in such a situation) select a female over your buddies? Has your buddies' dislike for a female ever caused you to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Buzzed guy flirting with me after breaking up with long term girlfriend: am i the rebound girl?

Last night I was at my university soccer game with my friends and one of those friends invited one of their party buddies from high school to sit with us. At first I didn't think anything of it, he was pretty funny and...

Tori2011

Xper 5 Age: 33

Flirting

Excessive staring from a raver girl. Any thoughts?

Well, here's the story.. I have a drinking buddy(female) who seems to stare at me constantly, even in front of her boyfriend... its super awkward considering he is a VERY nice guy. We go out, we drink, we party, we go...

Impecible

Xper 5 Age: 37

Marriage & Weddings

What's your take on "Girls Night Out" for a couple that's engaged to be married?

My buddy has been engaged for about a year and have about another year to go before they tie the knot. His girlfriend and him are a great couple and I've known her for 2 years since they got together. The problem he's...

nicenthic

Xper 7 Age: 45

My buddy has been engaged for about a year and have about another year to go before they tie the knot. His girlfriend and him are a great couple and I've known her for 2 years since

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Society & Politics

What makes a guy changed?

they are just a close buddy, but both of them share problems together, hung out together quite often and they both always share relationships advice. He in this situation is a busy man , he works everyday in early morning...

bell4

Xper 4 Age: 33

Dating

It seems my EX has reduced me to a texting buddy..... again

My EX and I have been on speaking terms for the past two weeks, and we both agreed to work on our relationship. Everything has been great between us. He made it seem like he had changed and that this time around things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Does "Sex Buddy" want more?

1. He was my first sex partner in 1997, which we had a childhood relationship at that time (I was 18 - he was 19). I am 35 now. 2. We KIT every so often/ seems like we "hook-up" every three to four years. 3. This time...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Flirting

NOT in a relationship but crush jokes about getting married?

I've been talking to this guy for a good 4-5 months now. From the get-go, I'd like to explain how I had started this thing on the basis that I was crushing on him and had wanted to get to know the guy better. What...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Is it really over? Or will he come back?

Okay so I met this guy and right away we hit if off! On the second date he asked me to be his GF...I was kinda hesitant at first since it was so soon but I just went with the flow and accepted. We were inseparable for 3...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

I'm having emotional problems .. are we meant to be or not .. could you help?

I'm 19. Last November my high school boyfriend-at-the-time broke up with me. We were not compatible anymore + he made less effort with me. It broke my heart. I met a guy at my uni in February this year who quickly...

LollyPopsicle

Xper 5 Age: 32

Other

What does it mean if he doesn't ask me out on the weekends?

We've been out twice in the span of three weeks, both times a weekday. It's never last minute plans. We text consistently. Last week I asked him to hang out on Friday and he said he would let me know because he didn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Online (FALSE Advertise) Dating - Kill me

guycurious2012

Xper 5 Age: 39

Ummmm - Help. Via online dating I met a guy who woo'ed me. Flowers, Chocolates, Teddy Bear, Perfume. Then I meet him - he's going bald and quite thin. Not the tanned, muscley,

Ummmm -

Help.

Via online dating I met a guy who woo'ed me. Flowers, Chocolates, Teddy Bear, Perfume.

Then I meet him - he's going bald and quite thin. Not the tanned, muscley, full-head-of-hair younger version of him.

I overlook the physicaly shortcomings because hello I'm human and have them too. He was enigmatic, vivacious, loud, engaging, full of jokes and - drunk.

I stupidly slept with him on the first night after going home alone (he called incessantly and finally I allowed him to come over).

I saw him two weeks later for a booty call after I realized he's not serious about dating. It had been a while for me and I thought oh well I will take it for what it is and leave it at that - but he wanted to 'hang out' afterward. He revealed that his brother is part of a gang in Sydney, shows me photos of 'the new Chopper Reid' - a notorious Sydney criminal who he's friends with. Blasts 'Hed P.E' all while talking about how cool him and his 'gang' are. How they are brutal but, all nice to him so - they're cool. (IDIOT!) in my head I'm thinking um buddy it's only a matter of time before they turn on you. you might have a nice apartment and money now, but they are using you and your 'trucking' business for their own agenda.

So - from being a self-confessed 'mummys boy' to 'gang member facilitator' over the few weeks I knew him, (he owns a warehouse they 'use' as a bikie club)...um. Isn't that false advertising?! And how the hell do people get so good at REELING you in and then droppig you flat with reality?! I REALLy thought he was a good, sound, humble business man! This is so far away from what I expected!

Needless to say - shall never be booty calling him - again. And I've turned off online dating for a while...

maybe it really is better to just be single and wait. so many freaks out there.

Oh! and he bragged about how he and these gangs guys see cop cars from his apartment and smash fruit and random objects on their cars. or throw lemons at peoples heads...he's 28.

Wow.

WOWWWWWW

Kill me now. Seriously. ARGH!

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Other

A guy I have slept with 3 times does not call, text, or email me just to talk

Hi guys, this is my first time posting a question here, and I really need your advice. Recently I met this guy online (we are both 45, probably older than most of you here). We had 3 dates in the course of a week, and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)