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Me and my boyfriend was talking last night over the phone about how he hates his job (of 8 years) and wants to try to apply for policing next year
He has told me this goal of being a police before we even started dating
So anyway this is our conversation:
Him - im definitely going to apply for police next year
Me - oh okay nice
Him - yeah. I know i have to do a course first and then have to go to the academy school which is 2 hour drive from where we are
Me - how long does the academy go for?
Him - i dont know.. maybe 4 or 5 months.. gotta check
Me - so i can't see you for 4 or 5 months?
Him - i think we can take weekends off so i can come drive down to see you and all on the weekends.. but does it matter if we dont see each other for 5 months?
Me - ofcourse it matters! Its hard not seeing your partner for 5 months!
Him - but we can communicate everyday?
Me - but you're gonna be staying there.. there's other girls around you
Him - babe.. im going to be focusing on this. Not other girls. Im serious about being a police. And im serious about you.. look im going to tell you.. just dont get your hopes up though.. but if i make it and become a police, thats it.. Im going to ask your parents for your hand in marriage. I would marry you. And anyway if your parents know im a cop now, they will feel more secure.
Me - wait.. wtf?
Him - yes im serious. If i get into cop, my life is complete. I will be settled. I will be ready to get married. So please stick with me. Dont leave me.
So guys, should i be worried about all of this?
Do you think its possible he could be lying about marrying part?
Im just scared that if i can't see him for 5 months and there's girls in the academy, then he's gonna lose interest in me... or we both gonna lose interest
I dont wanna stop him from his dreams and goals though..
He has told me that as soon as he's settled, he would be thinking of marriage and kids later
We been together for over 1 year
But i dont know what to do or think about it all😔😔
by the way im 22, he's 27

So i have a friend who is dating a guy who i feel like she doesn't deserve because she deserves better. (She is 29, owns her car, has a house and a full time job)

here's what i know,

•he hasn't had a job in 7 years (gets paid a pension)
•he is 42 years old
•he has no car so she has to go to his place
•he isn't free to hang on weekends because he hangs with his boys
•they have to have sex when they meet
•he has never gone to her place
•they have only known eachother for 2 months but is already talking marriage and children with her.

I dont know what to do, i dont want her to be stuck in something she can't get out of, but at the same time feel like its rude to say something. I just think she gas rose coloured glasses on, you know?