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I met this guy through blog and we had amazing dates and had sex. I easily fell for this guy because of his charm, efforts and sweetness.

One day, he confessed to me that he has still a girlfriend but they are not in good terms already. He lied and I got very mad.

We we had some misunderstanding to the point that I left hurting words and he is saying we are not compatible! You are a nag! Move on! I hate you ! . And We no longer talk for two weeks already. Because I told him To leave me alone and he needs to choose between us.

After that conversation , we no longer text , call and meet. I don't have any idea what happen to him. But honestly , I do miss him and I want him back in my life. But I am afraid if I talk to him first the more he will ran away from me.

My question is, should I wait Him talk to me? Or should I talk to him first?

I know the title is a bit odd. I have just come across so many people that stay in bad relationships or immediately after a breakup has to find a new partner. These people can't be alone. As far as I am concerned loneliness is not a good reason to start a relationship with anyone.
I had this guy friend that broke up with his girlfriend and just before he broke up with her, he told me he was going to end things with her and he wanted to date me!!! I was shocked. First of all, I thought we were just friends. (we had met long before he met his ex gf) And second of all, he was still in that relationship!

So are you guys this desperate to have a partner? Are you afraid to be left alone? Do you jump from a relationship to another?