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ok so let me try and sum this up. My best friend and I both have boyfriends. we used to hang out all the time, but ever since she started dating her boyfriend, she is always with him. We are still good friends but this summer I think we only had one sleepover? so anyway, tomorrow I was supossed to sleep over at her house. I called her and asked if we were still on. she said yes. I told her I could not get there until 8 though because my boyfriend has a baseball thing that I'm going to. she said "oh uhh I thought WE had plans, but it's cool (sarcastic). 8 is too late, so um maybe some other time" and then she hung up..

the thing that gets me is that if she is with her boyfriend, she has no problem telling me she can't hang out until like 9. I was not blowing off our plans.. we had never set a time anyway.

is she right to be mad, or am I right in the fact that I want to see my boyfriend too..

Okay so I was mad at my boyfriend because I heard he was flirting with other girls (who don't know me and him are together) and I heard he was talking - talking to them, so I was pissed. I asked his best friend if he was cheating on me, well his best friend told him I asked. He immidetly text me and said what's wrong babe? I asked him what he meant and he said "Like why do you think I'm cheating on you?" we talked about it and well basically he was like "No babe it ain't like that I haven't done anything but miss you, I really just want to spend time with you" - me and him really don't get to spend much time together. Then he was like "Baby I love you, not them. I promise". He always says things like this and is always talking about how he doesn't want to lose me and were gonna stay together for a long time and stuff like that. So how do I know when he's genuinely just trying to be sweet and when he's full of sh*t because he used to be/ is a player?

BTW: In case it matters he told the girls who like him/ he was flirting with that he already had some one who he cared about so he wasn't interested. Now there not running there mouths saying there about to get with my boyfriend...