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My twin sister, and I planned on moving out together in October. We talked about it, and I promised her that we would still continue to move together. But all we do is fight, and she really is starting to get on my nerves. It's just really small things. Like for example, she asks me to do things, and for things, and being the bigger sister, I always help her out. But when it comes to me, it's like I don't matter. Not only that, but she doesn't have a job right now, so because of her we changed the moving date. But I'm tired, and every time I told her before, that I didn't want to live with her. She gives me attitude, and then some. Then I end up feeling bad, and telling her we will continue as planned. So anyway, I promised her we would do it together, but I'm getting tired of considering her feelings, and I'm starting not to care anymore. I feel like breaking that promise so bad. I just don't know what to do. Sure everyone fights, but I would rather live alone, then continue on this path. How do I approach her on this subject? Should I consider her feelings anymore? What to do? I love her, but I'm getting so freaking tired of this. I don't want to ruin our relationship.

It's really annoying and sometimes hurtful but my brother said that he's just playing and it's what siblings do. He also said he sees me as a little brother so sometimes he'll talk about girls. It use to not be too bad but since we're older he talks more graphic and explicitly about women like saying "Oh look at her ass, makes my d hard!"
It's not appropriate and I told him to stop but he just says that I'm too sensitive or calls me a lesbian (which I'm not but he sometimes thinks it's funny to call me names since he knows it gets on my nerves and I use to cry over him calling me other stuff like stupid and ugly or that I'm a waste of a girl since I'm flat chested)

I never did like it as a kid but I just learned to not fight back too much or else he'd hit me harder. I mean sure siblings fight over stuff but he does it for no apparent reason and we're not kids anymore!!!

I wish I could move out but I don't have a job (my parents want me to focus on school) and it's cheaper to live at home while commuting to school. I don't want to cut him out of my life since family is important to me and he's not always so cruel just maybe 60% of the time.

im a girl but i need a guys perspective..
1. we went to the movies (my idea)
2. he payed for everything, opened every door.
3. i talked about friends.
4. he didn't "try" anything.
5. when we pulled up into my drive way i got out almost immediately (nerves got to me)
did i make it seem like a date or no?

im just wondering if any guys out there talk to women online and think the woman is gorgeous and smart and funny or whatever, and would like to meet but are afraid that in person it won't go well so you hold off for awhile due to nerves or wait for the right opportunity. I'm just trying to understand why some guys want to meet women online but then when it comes to meeting they agree and then they flake. and this is not because they're married or taken, but are fully single.