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... my thought is no because if you were serious about your feelings and thought there might be a future, then you wouldn't want the people that matter in your life to think of her as "that girl you were cheating on so-and-so with...".
But my guy friend totally disagrees with me. The guys probably just bringing his mistress around because he wants to see her whenever he gets the chance to have time to himself when his girlfriend isn't present, and maybe subconsciously even kind of wants to show his mistress off if he's really that infatuated with her, that it doesn't mean he wouldn't ever date her seriously one day

Basically, like is someone hot more likely to get better service , attention , help even?

Apparently many studies show this, whether you believe hot people are treated better.
Taller men (tall men are generally seen as more attractive) usually are paid more.
Thinner women (slim women are generally seen more attractive) are on average paid more.
And yes both of those take skills, education, etc into account.
Teachers give attractive students more help and attention, and even better grades!
Women with larger breasts are given more tips (well, duh, I don't know why a study is needed for this).
Etc. Etc. Etc.

Personally, I do think there is a bias for attractive people. You dont really need studies to show you when you see men holding doors open for you when you are dressed up, but then let it slam in your face when you look like a mess (yes, this has happened to me! lol it was even the same guy!) You can tell when teachers ignore you and favor other children. I'm sure many guys can tell when if you are to ask a girl out in an outlandish way you're considered the creep, but if a hot guy did it, he's soooo sweet and romantic.
We all favor attractive people, and we all maybe subconsciously treat them better, whether we want to or not. So before you go hating on the people who treat attractive people better and sure that may mean that we won't be favored in many situations, but remember that we're only human, we're predisposed to see beauty=health.