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So I feel like I've become alone lately! I feel like my friends never want to hang out with me or do anything with me anymore and it really REALLY hurts. I live 30 minutes from most of my friends but we've never had a problem getting together for years now so I'm not sure what the problem is. I just feel like I'm out of the loop now though but I personally don't think I've done anything to cause that. I've always been the type to speak my mind if someone does something to me or does me wrong and I think that's how it should be so you can talk it out and get over it. My BIGGEST issue is a friend that is 34 years old and has a 3 almost 4 year old son and is divorced. She was the sister in law to one of my friends and that's how I met her. I introduced HER to all of MY friends and now it's like she's up all of their asses and has been somewhat rude to me the last few months. Granted I don't drive to every single time they get together for sushi but why do I want to drive 30 minutes to go and eat chicken at a sushi places since I don't eat sushi?! I asked everyone all summer to do this and that and even go to the beach but everyone always said no. The 34 year old asked a couple of people and now people are going...she did ask me but AFTER I asked if she had plans. Maybe I'm over thinking it all but I'm really sad and feel like I've lost my friends and just partially wish I could start all over with new friends! Advice?

Also, I'm 27 and most of the other friends are about a year younger than me, 2 34 year olds, a 40 year old and a 22 year old for the most part...one of the friends is married but it's always been a group thing with them too...and I was in her wedding! I've felt a little distant from some of them in the past and told one of the closest/best friends and she kind of acted like I was crazy so it's hard just to tell me to go and talk to them about it again.

I'm also about to start working a job that keeps me working 6 days a week 10-12 hours a day and possibly going out of town to work for a month and won't see anyone then which I'm afraid will separate me from them even more.