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So I'm 17, and pretty much all of my friends and myself have managed to get boyfriends at the same time. And so we do that "girly" thing where we sit around and talk about our boyfriends, show screen shots of cute things they said in text, and what not.

Now my friends are all about that stuff. They LOVE when their boyfriends write paragraphs about them, or get them flowers or whatever else.

I on the other hand, do NOT. It makes me uncomfortable honestly. And I'm also not a romantic myself, so honestly I could care less if my boyfriend sends me a paragraph about why he likes me. I'd just sit there like "lol, cool."

Luckily for me, my boyfriend is also not a romantic. In fact, the other day he actually APOLOGIZED to me for not being romantic enough, and I was actually confused because that's something that I like about him.

And then while my friends are hanging all over their boyfriends, sitting on their laps, and giving exsessive kisses, me and my boyfriend will hug each other in greeting and SOMETIMES we'll give each other a little peck or something, but then after that we're both kind of like "alright, now get off I need my space." We don't say that, but it's sort of a silent agreement.

And it works for us though, we've been dating several months and not had a single argument, which I know isn't a lot, but it's something.

However the reason I ask is because APPARENTLY if you didn't know we were dating, then you just wouldn't know. And like, my boyfriend is fairly attractive, so I've seen girls just walk up to him right in front of me and think we're just friends and start flirting with him, and then depending on my mood I'll either say nothing about it and let him handle himself, or I'll make a big joke of the whole situation and tell the girl all about how he was just commenting on her butt. (he never does, but we both have a good laugh about stuff like that later).

And then there's my friends who also make comments, and they always seem to hint that my boyfriend might not really care about me because of how we act around each other, and I've even been accussed of using him because he does come from a fairly wealthy family.

ANYWAY, DOES anyone else just get extremely uncomfortable when it comes to romantic things?

Somw information that pertains to the issue:
My boyfriend get a little weird when he's high. He's self conscious about this and knows that he does act a little weird sometimes but I don't care because who doesn't act weird when they're high?
There have been 2 situations where I've unintentionally made him feel uncomfortable and made him feel like he was being made fun of and I realized that what I said was insensitive and I didn't even notice it. I can be a little blunt and not really think about I say sometimes so I apologized.
Last night my boyfriend and I got high again and he was moving around a little too much and ended up knocking my laptop off my bed and breaking it. When I go to pick it up, I tell him somewhere along the lines of, "Can you calm down now?"
He said that he felt like I hurt his feelings in the way I said it because he said that I sounded like I couldn't handle him anymore or something.
When I said it, I meant to it in the way that someone tells someone else to stop what it was they were doing to cause them to break one for their things. I think what he her advice in my voice was the annoyance and panic I my voice because I was silently freaking out and worrying about my laptop. I didn't yell at him and say that it was his fault because accidentshe do happen. I wasn't even angry at him!
I just wanna know whether what I said was insensitive or to whether I was lashing put at him in a way that made fun of him. He says the way I said it made him feel like one of those times that I made him do feel bad about acting a little weird.