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In middle school, my first date asked me before we started dating, "Are you popular in your school or not? (She didn't go to the same school as me). I paused for about a minute and she sent me a text reading, "ok". I then answered back saying, "yes". I know, kind of awkward, right? Anyways, she then all of a sudden seemed to get all excited and decided to ask me all of these questions like, What's my rank in Football and Basketball, and how many girls have I dated before. Looking back, I don't think it was wise to date her. She was pretty toxic and I'm glad I ended the relationship. I don't see why it should matter if I'm popular or not, my athletic capabilities, and how many times I've dated (She dated like 12 times and she was my first). Also, the reason why I broke up with her is because I suspected she was cheating on me with this other guy in her school. Turns out I was right. I got a text from "her", it was the guy she was cheating on me with, and it was a video of them having sex. Another, was a picture of her flipping me off while giving him head. Sooo... ever since then, I remained single and a virgin. I went through a traumatic experience, so you can't blame nor persuade me to go back to dating. Because I don't believe in real, true love.

I don't want to appear like I'm too full of myself but I'm being as objective as possible.
I'm 5'11 (180cm), with athletic proportional body, though currently not extremely fit, meaning my muscles aren't so toned and may be a bit of belly fat (when I say little I mean it :D ), But I still do have nicely shaped legs and arms and chest, it's not like it's ugly or bad, not even average, it's definitely above average but also not very muscular or extremely nicely shaped, let's say, few levels below that, but still looking overall quite good. Also good looking face, I've heard compliments before, cute, hot, sexy etc.

So been dating this girl for a week we had few times very hot sex etc. and then we started talking about some topics and I don't know how and why I came up with this but I asked her if I'm sexually attractive for her?
Her answer - "A bit. Not that much.
After another 5 min of talking she is basically telling me that in order to find me sexually attractive, I need to have perfectly toned body (toned muscles, more biceps, triceps etc) and have to be one head taller than my current height of 5'11. Then and only then she will find me sexually attractive and hot. At my current state she does not find me hot nor sexually attractive, but she thinks I'm a good person (oh so generous, wow 10x :D )

And I started thinking, is it really those two things that makes a person looks so amazingly sexually attractive, isn't it a combination of behavior, appearance (which I do have) , how you carry yourself, how you talk to a girl etc.
So somehow she (my current girl) ignores all of these things and pin points that I need perfectly toned body and more height to become sexually attractive, otherwise I'm not sexually attractive. Which to me sounds harsh af! And also shallow af! What do you guys think?
Is her point of view way too narrow, simplistic and shallow or unless guys have perfectly toned body and lots of height they can't be sexually attractive?