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- Attraction is mostly emotional for a woman as long as she is open to dating in the first place and the guy doesn’t have huge initial red flags.
- She has to feel safe and comfortable around the guy to want to date him. A guy triggers this initially by making her laugh and relaxing her and then by being confident and internally strong.
- It takes time for her to fall in love with him. She has to go away and have space - Do I like him? How do I feel when with him? How do I feel when not with him?
- Having the confidence to communicate interest is also necessary. If a guy fixates on 1 girl and starts subtly chasing her without communicating interest confidently and clearly for weeks or months, it will kill any attraction as she wonders why you’re not making a move even though she can sense the guy likes her and she’ll assume you’re not interested or not confident enough to make a move.
- Girls are constantly subconsciously judging and testing even guy friends. He has to remain internally strong and masculine and continue to make her laugh.
- Attraction in girls can also fluctuate depending on circumstances but guys should remain confident and secure.
- Guys should be their own person and let girls chase him. And take the lead when with her.

I was involved in a love triangle at work.

A Co worker Liked me.

My co worker / Friend liked her
I Liked Her too, but not as much as he did..

I quarantined for a month since I caught COVID.
When I came back they were dating.
He must’ve made a move while I was gone.

She used to be sweet to me, now she completely avoids me & runs from me basically.
Today we all talked & She wouldn’t even look at me, When she talked to me
She sorta rushed about what she had to say.

She’s just acting weird & uncomfortable around me...
She still has a little sweet spot for me doesn’t she?

If she was comfortable with him, why would she be so nervous around me?

she's trying her best to seem like she isn’t attracted to me